I want my male friend to transition.Watch
I am 21 years old and currently in university, throughout my entire life no woman has ever been attracted to me or shown me affection. It is very clear that if a woman was to want me it would've happened by now. I have another male friend who I will call Dan. Dan is 19 years old and goes to my same university, we are very good friends and get along very well. I have known him for multiple years and he has always been very kind to me.
Dan has the same issues with women that I do and girls do not want him because he has a small frame and short height. He has told me that in the past that he masturbates to gay pornography. He says that he's straight while doing this however and he has a feminine presence.
I know that deep down in his heart that he is meant to be a woman. I believe that he is meant to be my woman in specific. I have been talking to him and trying to put the idea of transitioning into his head and he hasn't been receptive to it. I know that he is just in denial. I just want Dan to transition to female that way I could finally have a loving relationship with a woman. It would be mutually beneficial also since as I said he has always struggled with women.
Basically what I'm asking is what strategies can I use to make Dan realize that she's a girl on the inside? How do I make him realize that he is a trans woman in denial? I am willing to pay for her HRT treatments if money is an issue, I just want love.
Thanks for reading, please help me.
- the loner(s)
Accurately, a very very small percentage of humanity is destined to be TG; when analysed these self-identity diverse ideas can exist - but they can also be fairly transient, as in 100% this way today - then in a year 100% entirely the other way. "bursty" "noisy" not reliable (and not much researched, allegedly)
Of course everything legal should be allowed, permitted, but bear in mind that many 'converts' are likely correctly confused by the whole complex humanity 'dating' thing. Many TG are being discovered to be somewhere on the autistic-spectrum, like me, and dating 'humans' (neurotypical) is a total mystery, always has been. Don't worry about labels or status, make your friends the way you wish, but consider to leave people in their own bubble, if you can - as - who knows what they are thinking, today, tomorrow, yesterday, next-year. Hence keep asking, gently, every so often.
Other people likely have different ideas, so do ask quite a few people's advice, don't assume the truth is in whatever random answers you attract on here, including this opinion.
You can't pray (or in this case trans) the gay away.
Lets be honest, the chances of this person meeting a receptive partner with attitudes like this are thankfully 'miniscule' let alone 'soon', you don't wish people like this on anyone.
I totally agree, that was so wrong of me to say that, sorry 😂 . I do find it so sickening. If his mate wanted to become a girl then understandable but the fact that he doesn't and his mate is forcing him to because he wants a girlfriend is abnormal