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23 year old girl with 20 year old guy?

Do you think it's ok for a 23 year old girl to go out with a 20 year old guy? I'm worried the age gap is too big. I look around 19-20, and most people assume that's how old I am until I tell them I'm 23. I wouldn't say I'm immature but I can get on well with people younger than me as well as people my age or older. Do you think it seems weird, or is it quite common?

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Reply 1

trm90

It's fine. Past 18 years old it's very common for people to date others who are 2-5 years age difference etc - keep in mind that the difference in maturity levels of a 20 year old and a 23 year old isn't that far apart.

Reply 2

geminilady

No i dont think its an age gap at all, aslong as you get on well together thats the most important thing!

Reply 3

ginnycake

it really depends on the guy and how mature he is.( you know, some guys take longer.. etc etc)
but only because there is an age gap of 3 years, that's certainly no reason for it being weird!

Reply 4

strawberry

it isn't a problem unless you make it a problem.

Reply 5

linda helena

I don't think it's weird at all. Go for it.

no probs

I'm 23, he's 20!
Go for it!

Ppl say that I look my age and he looks older but still younger than me but he doesn't mind and I don't either!

I love him and he loves me.. that's the important thing!

Reply 8

Fleece

This topic has been done to death.

I'm 23, my guy is 19, soon to turn 20. Doesn't matter.

Reply 9

Anonymous #2

im 23 and my girlfriend is 18 :wink:

the age gap doesn't matter as long as you get along and it works =)

Reply 10

Norfolkadam

Why does it matter? As long as you are happy.

Reply 11

Segat1

No, three years doesn't matter. It would if you were ten and seven but hey, you're not THAT dumb, are you?

Reply 12

Malinski

I know a 21 year old girl who's seeing a 31 year old guy, and they're really happy. So as long as your happy, why does it matter?
I don't see the big deal with age gaps myself.

Reply 13

jaguarfan_1

nothing wrong with it, my partner is 23 and im 20...so cant be that bad

Reply 14

hec

difference between 20-23 is nothing..

Reply 15

Dragon24

My friend is 28 going out with a guy who has just turned 24. They have been together nearly 5 years so met when she was 24 and he was 19! At first they worried about others who poked fun until 1 friend told them to ignore it, which is a good thing they did as they are so happy and suited together :smile:

Reply 16

Marolver

Is it ok to date a 20 year old female

Reply 17

Marolver

Is it ok to date a 20 year old female

Reply 18

Mina_Ashido19

T-T Why does this conversation make me regret being single. I used to date a 29 year old before we broke up 6 months ago.. Id say it doesn't matter as long as the couple has a mutual relationship.