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Concerned about my little sisters behaviour, she’s 12/13 yrs old and is always on the phone to some boy.
She sometimes goes in the bathroom and then I get suspicious cause she’s in there a long time so I go and lean against the door and I can hear her whispering on the phone to him but I can’t hear what they’re saying exactly as they’re whispering so quietly.
Then whenever I knock and ask what she’s doing she says nothing and that she’s on the toilet.
I’m concerned she’s secretly doing sexual things/nudes on FaceTime or Snapchat.
She sometimes goes in the bathroom and then I get suspicious cause she’s in there a long time so I go and lean against the door and I can hear her whispering on the phone to him but I can’t hear what they’re saying exactly as they’re whispering so quietly.
Then whenever I knock and ask what she’s doing she says nothing and that she’s on the toilet.
I’m concerned she’s secretly doing sexual things/nudes on FaceTime or Snapchat.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
Concerned about my little sisters behaviour, she’s 12/13 yrs old and is always on the phone to some boy.
She sometimes goes in the bathroom and then I get suspicious cause she’s in there a long time so I go and lean against the door and I can hear her whispering on the phone to him but I can’t hear what they’re saying exactly as they’re whispering so quietly.
Then whenever I knock and ask what she’s doing she says nothing and that she’s on the toilet.
I’m concerned she’s secretly doing sexual things/nudes on FaceTime or Snapchat.
Concerned about my little sisters behaviour, she’s 12/13 yrs old and is always on the phone to some boy.
She sometimes goes in the bathroom and then I get suspicious cause she’s in there a long time so I go and lean against the door and I can hear her whispering on the phone to him but I can’t hear what they’re saying exactly as they’re whispering so quietly.
Then whenever I knock and ask what she’s doing she says nothing and that she’s on the toilet.
I’m concerned she’s secretly doing sexual things/nudes on FaceTime or Snapchat.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
Concerned about my little sisters behaviour, she’s 12/13 yrs old and is always on the phone to some boy.
She sometimes goes in the bathroom and then I get suspicious cause she’s in there a long time so I go and lean against the door and I can hear her whispering on the phone to him but I can’t hear what they’re saying exactly as they’re whispering so quietly.
Then whenever I knock and ask what she’s doing she says nothing and that she’s on the toilet.
I’m concerned she’s secretly doing sexual things/nudes on FaceTime or Snapchat.
Concerned about my little sisters behaviour, she’s 12/13 yrs old and is always on the phone to some boy.
She sometimes goes in the bathroom and then I get suspicious cause she’s in there a long time so I go and lean against the door and I can hear her whispering on the phone to him but I can’t hear what they’re saying exactly as they’re whispering so quietly.
Then whenever I knock and ask what she’s doing she says nothing and that she’s on the toilet.
I’m concerned she’s secretly doing sexual things/nudes on FaceTime or Snapchat.
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Why would your mind jump to sexual things/nudes??
Do you have anything to suggest that is the case?
Do you have anything to suggest that is the case?
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(Original post by JustOneMoreThing)
It's almost like she doesn't want her sister intruding on her privacy, baffling.
It's almost like she doesn't want her sister intruding on her privacy, baffling.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
Concerned about my little sisters behaviour, she’s 12/13 yrs old and is always on the phone to some boy.
She sometimes goes in the bathroom and then I get suspicious cause she’s in there a long time so I go and lean against the door and I can hear her whispering on the phone to him but I can’t hear what they’re saying exactly as they’re whispering so quietly.
Then whenever I knock and ask what she’s doing she says nothing and that she’s on the toilet.
I’m concerned she’s secretly doing sexual things/nudes on FaceTime or Snapchat.
Concerned about my little sisters behaviour, she’s 12/13 yrs old and is always on the phone to some boy.
She sometimes goes in the bathroom and then I get suspicious cause she’s in there a long time so I go and lean against the door and I can hear her whispering on the phone to him but I can’t hear what they’re saying exactly as they’re whispering so quietly.
Then whenever I knock and ask what she’s doing she says nothing and that she’s on the toilet.
I’m concerned she’s secretly doing sexual things/nudes on FaceTime or Snapchat.
Last edited by Ciel.; 1 month ago
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#8
(Original post by Anonymous)
if you think it’s acceptable for a child to lock herself in the bathroom on the phone to a boy then something is wrong with you, especially in this generation where nudes are seen as what popular people do and trendy. Why go to the bathroom, lock the door and be whispering when she can jus talk normally in her room without anyone listening or close her bedroom door.
if you think it’s acceptable for a child to lock herself in the bathroom on the phone to a boy then something is wrong with you, especially in this generation where nudes are seen as what popular people do and trendy. Why go to the bathroom, lock the door and be whispering when she can jus talk normally in her room without anyone listening or close her bedroom door.
If you are that concerned bring it up with your parents.
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(Original post by GabiAbi84)
Why would your mind jump to sexual things/nudes??
Do you have anything to suggest that is the case?
Why would your mind jump to sexual things/nudes??
Do you have anything to suggest that is the case?
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i think just leave her alone. if you haven’t got a good enough relationship for her to not feel comfortable talking to people around you, then maybe there’s something wrong with that. you have to trust her to not make any stupid decisions, and if she does, one of the best ways to grow is to learn from your mistake. also, sometimes u don’t want everything you do to be known by your family. just trust her
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#12
(Original post by Ciel.)
i wouldn't normally advise this, but considering her age, i think you should: make sure your phone has a lot of battery. hide it in the bathroom somewhere + start recording a voice memo. then when she leaves, discreetly retrieve it and listen to the recording
i wouldn't normally advise this, but considering her age, i think you should: make sure your phone has a lot of battery. hide it in the bathroom somewhere + start recording a voice memo. then when she leaves, discreetly retrieve it and listen to the recording
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#13
(Original post by mflach)
i think just leave her alone. if you haven’t got a good enough relationship for her to not feel comfortable talking to people around you, then maybe there’s something wrong with that. you have to trust her to not make any stupid decisions, and if she does, one of the best ways to grow is to learn from your mistake. also, sometimes u don’t want everything you do to be known by your family. just trust her
i think just leave her alone. if you haven’t got a good enough relationship for her to not feel comfortable talking to people around you, then maybe there’s something wrong with that. you have to trust her to not make any stupid decisions, and if she does, one of the best ways to grow is to learn from your mistake. also, sometimes u don’t want everything you do to be known by your family. just trust her
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#14
(Original post by Anonymous)
Are you joking or being serious lmao. What if it turns out she in doing sexual things? Would make OP a bit of a voyeur. She is a teenager and maybe she wants privacy and feels like she’ll be heard if she speaks at a normal volume
Are you joking or being serious lmao. What if it turns out she in doing sexual things? Would make OP a bit of a voyeur. She is a teenager and maybe she wants privacy and feels like she’ll be heard if she speaks at a normal volume
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#15
(Original post by LovelyMrFox)
Kids do not deserve full trust not to make stupid decisions, that is why parents and adults in their life are their to guide them. I was a dumbarse at 12 years old, most are.
Kids do not deserve full trust not to make stupid decisions, that is why parents and adults in their life are their to guide them. I was a dumbarse at 12 years old, most are.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
She’s 12 turning 13 soon
She’s 12 turning 13 soon
Why not have a chat with her about it at a proper time rather than when shes right in the middle of whatever shes doing? That boundary of comfort isnt going to go away until you break it, if done considerately this is a great time to start talking to her about such things. Dont accuse her of anything either.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
Concerned about my little sisters behaviour, she’s 12/13 yrs old and is always on the phone to some boy.
She sometimes goes in the bathroom and then I get suspicious cause she’s in there a long time so I go and lean against the door and I can hear her whispering on the phone to him but I can’t hear what they’re saying exactly as they’re whispering so quietly.
Then whenever I knock and ask what she’s doing she says nothing and that she’s on the toilet.
I’m concerned she’s secretly doing sexual things/nudes on FaceTime or Snapchat.
Concerned about my little sisters behaviour, she’s 12/13 yrs old and is always on the phone to some boy.
She sometimes goes in the bathroom and then I get suspicious cause she’s in there a long time so I go and lean against the door and I can hear her whispering on the phone to him but I can’t hear what they’re saying exactly as they’re whispering so quietly.
Then whenever I knock and ask what she’s doing she says nothing and that she’s on the toilet.
I’m concerned she’s secretly doing sexual things/nudes on FaceTime or Snapchat.
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(Original post by LovelyMrFox)
Since when do 12 year olds have phones?
Why not have a chat with her about it at a proper time rather than when shes right in the middle of whatever shes doing? That boundary of comfort isnt going to go away until you break it, if done considerately this is a great time to start talking to her about such things. Dont accuse her of anything either.
Since when do 12 year olds have phones?
Why not have a chat with her about it at a proper time rather than when shes right in the middle of whatever shes doing? That boundary of comfort isnt going to go away until you break it, if done considerately this is a great time to start talking to her about such things. Dont accuse her of anything either.
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(Original post by mflach)
i think just leave her alone. if you haven’t got a good enough relationship for her to not feel comfortable talking to people around you, then maybe there’s something wrong with that. you have to trust her to not make any stupid decisions, and if she does, one of the best ways to grow is to learn from your mistake. also, sometimes u don’t want everything you do to be known by your family. just trust her
i think just leave her alone. if you haven’t got a good enough relationship for her to not feel comfortable talking to people around you, then maybe there’s something wrong with that. you have to trust her to not make any stupid decisions, and if she does, one of the best ways to grow is to learn from your mistake. also, sometimes u don’t want everything you do to be known by your family. just trust her
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(Original post by Wannabevetnurse)
treat her like an adult...sit her down and talk to her....let her know that your there, first as a guardian "I dont want anything happening to you...", then as a friend "if you tell me...your secret would be safe"....then as a older sibling "Im here to protect you...". If you treat her like a terrorist by breaking boundaries and her privacy then expect her not to allow you in. Treat her like an adult and she'll open up. At the age of 12/13 I'm not sure she even knows about sex/noods sort of stuff, but she may be getting groomed.....just talk to her.
treat her like an adult...sit her down and talk to her....let her know that your there, first as a guardian "I dont want anything happening to you...", then as a friend "if you tell me...your secret would be safe"....then as a older sibling "Im here to protect you...". If you treat her like a terrorist by breaking boundaries and her privacy then expect her not to allow you in. Treat her like an adult and she'll open up. At the age of 12/13 I'm not sure she even knows about sex/noods sort of stuff, but she may be getting groomed.....just talk to her.
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