Talking to British Asian Men, my mum is not happy

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My preference is British Asian, I have dated white western guys but I eventually want to date someone and feel like I can balance my studies.

My mum doesn't want me to date during studies. I know it is important for me to get good grades.

Honestly I have had white boyfriends before but when I say British Asian she tells me 'why do you want to date now, wait until you are 30' or 'I don't think you should be dating right now' but she never really said that when I had white boyfriend?

erm... most people my age have relationships and I feel like I will be okay to have one and balance it well? My dad doesn't care who I date.
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It depends on you. Dating and doing your studies is a lot easier if it’s with the right person. Dating at 30 is really difficult but your mum cares about you and does want the best for you. Do what you feel comfortable with
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(Original post by Anonymous)
My preference is British Asian, I have dated white western guys but I eventually want to date someone and feel like I can balance my studies.

My mum doesn't want me to date during studies. I know it is important for me to get good grades.

Honestly I have had white boyfriends before but when I say British Asian she tells me 'why do you want to date now, wait until you are 30' or 'I don't think you should be dating right now' but she never really said that when I had white boyfriend?

erm... most people my age have relationships and I feel like I will be okay to have one and balance it well? My dad doesn't care who I date.
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because she doesn't want you to be honour killed
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