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I went on a date with this guy and it went great. But at the end he told me he had recently became exclusive with another girl. He asked me to wait for their relationship to end, as the girl is leaving the country and they are going to break up. And that we can start seeing each other again in a month or so.
I’m not sure how to feel about this. I’m starting to resent him slightly for putting me in this situation. He was very upfront that he likes me and that he won’t be able to be friends with me. Should i wait for him?
I’m not sure how to feel about this. I’m starting to resent him slightly for putting me in this situation. He was very upfront that he likes me and that he won’t be able to be friends with me. Should i wait for him?
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that's ridiculous, don't wait for him. he's putting you aside for another girl. that doesn't sit right with me!
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(Original post by 2003student)
there was no need for that! some people juts need some advice, don't think that was necessary
there was no need for that! some people juts need some advice, don't think that was necessary
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He is currently dating someone he has no interest in and has not broken up with her.. Do you really want to be with someone who acts like that in relationships?
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#6
(Original post by YaliaV123)
They went on ONE date.
They went on ONE date.
And this isn’t the best basis to start a relationship with me. I’m just confused as to how this happened. At least he’s told me and not kept me around.
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#7
(Original post by LovelyMrFox)
He is currently dating someone he has no interest in and has not broken up with her.. Do you really want to be with someone who acts like that in relationships?
He is currently dating someone he has no interest in and has not broken up with her.. Do you really want to be with someone who acts like that in relationships?
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#8
(Original post by agirlcalledtheo)
He does have an interest in her. Thats why he’s with her. He said himself that he’s confused as to how he can like two people at the same time. He is with her, but there is a end date to their relationship. And he wants that relationship to end before he explores things with me. Boys are so stupid. Its like he wants everything, will i sit around waiting with nothing.
He does have an interest in her. Thats why he’s with her. He said himself that he’s confused as to how he can like two people at the same time. He is with her, but there is a end date to their relationship. And he wants that relationship to end before he explores things with me. Boys are so stupid. Its like he wants everything, will i sit around waiting with nothing.
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#9
(Original post by YaliaV123)
Are you being serious? Either get some self-respect or stop trolling.
Are you being serious? Either get some self-respect or stop trolling.
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#10
(Original post by LovelyMrFox)
Boys are not stupid, there are plenty of genuine men out there that wont play with your time and emotions. Dont put up with ones that do.
Boys are not stupid, there are plenty of genuine men out there that wont play with your time and emotions. Dont put up with ones that do.
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If i’m single when he gets out of this relationship. Which lets be honest i will be, shouldn’t i at least give him a chance?
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(Original post by Anonymous)
I went on a date with this guy and it went great. But at the end he told me he had recently became exclusive with another girl. He asked me to wait for their relationship to end, as the girl is leaving the country and they are going to break up. And that we can start seeing each other again in a month or so.
I’m not sure how to feel about this. I’m starting to resent him slightly for putting me in this situation. He was very upfront that he likes me and that he won’t be able to be friends with me. Should i wait for him?
I went on a date with this guy and it went great. But at the end he told me he had recently became exclusive with another girl. He asked me to wait for their relationship to end, as the girl is leaving the country and they are going to break up. And that we can start seeing each other again in a month or so.
I’m not sure how to feel about this. I’m starting to resent him slightly for putting me in this situation. He was very upfront that he likes me and that he won’t be able to be friends with me. Should i wait for him?
Can you see yourself liking his definition of exclusive in a future you-him relationship?
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(Original post by agirlcalledtheo)
If i’m single when he gets out of this relationship. Which lets be honest i will be, shouldn’t i at least give him a chance?
If i’m single when he gets out of this relationship. Which lets be honest i will be, shouldn’t i at least give him a chance?
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(Original post by Anonymous)
I went on a date with this guy and it went great. But at the end he told me he had recently became exclusive with another girl. He asked me to wait for their relationship to end, as the girl is leaving the country and they are going to break up. And that we can start seeing each other again in a month or so.
I’m not sure how to feel about this. I’m starting to resent him slightly for putting me in this situation. He was very upfront that he likes me and that he won’t be able to be friends with me. Should i wait for him?
I went on a date with this guy and it went great. But at the end he told me he had recently became exclusive with another girl. He asked me to wait for their relationship to end, as the girl is leaving the country and they are going to break up. And that we can start seeing each other again in a month or so.
I’m not sure how to feel about this. I’m starting to resent him slightly for putting me in this situation. He was very upfront that he likes me and that he won’t be able to be friends with me. Should i wait for him?
Sling him in the bin and wait until you meet someone who is worth your while.
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(Original post by GabiAbi84)
I wouldn’t. If he cared at all about this being anything real then he would be breaking up with this other girl and putting you first. He’s not. He’s letting you hang around waiting whilst he enjoys the last month with her. Not worth your time.
I wouldn’t. If he cared at all about this being anything real then he would be breaking up with this other girl and putting you first. He’s not. He’s letting you hang around waiting whilst he enjoys the last month with her. Not worth your time.
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i've texted him to call me... and i'm going to say that he either wants to be in a relationship with me now or not at all
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#17
Are you on drugs? Sorry, but this guy is just a straight up tosser. If you have any self-worth you should cut things off, he can do this to you now (Put you on hold until a current relationship burns out), what makes you think he won't do this to you if/when you get together with him?
Also, don't let age fool you, age is by no stretch of the imagination a good measure of maturity. They have a job, a car, or maybe a mortgage? Wow, a large percentile of people over the age of 18 have these things, with the rest having access to them. His actions alone with you have demonstrated an infantile mentality, thinking he can have the whole cake so to speak, while you wait in the backlines?
I personally would have cut the conversation and any contact with this person the moment they brought this topic up.
(Original post by agirlcalledtheo)
You might be onto something there. I guess i thought that he would be more mature since he’s 4 years older than me. And he is, in some aspects. I’m not sure what i’m saying anymore haha
You might be onto something there. I guess i thought that he would be more mature since he’s 4 years older than me. And he is, in some aspects. I’m not sure what i’m saying anymore haha
I personally would have cut the conversation and any contact with this person the moment they brought this topic up.
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