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So, I am a male who is transitioning to a female. My husband is gay and he doesn't like women so he wants to divorce me. I thought he loved me because of my personality but I guess I was wrong.

I don't know what to do. It's not too late to stop the transition process but if I do stop it I won't be happy in my own skin. If I do go through with it my husband will leave me. Does anyone have some advice for me?
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Relationship sounds over, he has every right to resist changes to the relationship, you have every right to explore your own life.
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I am doubtful of this story.
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(Original post by LovelyMrFox)
I am doubtful of this story.
It's ok, i solved it anyway.
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Anonymous #1
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Relationship sounds over, he has every right to resist changes to the relationship, you have every right to explore your own life.
So I just break up with him?
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I am doubtful of this story.
Well, it's true,
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So I just break up with him?
I don't see what other option there could be.

You'd think you'd have went through all this with your husband before you made your decision?
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I don't see what other option there could be.

You'd think you'd have went through all this with your husband before you made your decision?
I did talk to him but he still want a divorce.
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I did talk to him but he still want a divorce.
How long you been married?
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How long you been married?
5 months.
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It seems like transitioning would have been raised prior to getting married. It's a bit odd of him not to mention it was a deal breaker.
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5 months.
Did your husband know you were trans at the time you married?
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Did your husband know you were trans at the time you married?
No.
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It seems like transitioning would have been raised prior to getting married. It's a bit odd of him not to mention it was a deal breaker.
But I wanted to transition after we married.
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No.
Then he might be able to get a nullity. It would be quicker and better for all concerned. You can't have a divorce for at least a year, and you wouldn't want it dragging on. On these facts, there's no marriage here.
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Then he might be able to get a nullity. It would be quicker and better for all concerned. You can't have a divorce for at least a year, and you wouldn't want it dragging on. On these facts, there's no marriage here.
Oh.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
So, I am a male who is transitioning to a female. My husband is gay and he doesn't like women so he wants to divorce me. I thought he loved me because of my personality but I guess I was wrong.

I don't know what to do. It's not too late to stop the transition process but if I do stop it I won't be happy in my own skin. If I do go through with it my husband will leave me. Does anyone have some advice for me?
You can't force a gay man into a relationship with a woman, but you shouldn't be forced to live unhappily.
I'm sorry you're in such a situation, it sounds really rough, but I'd say to go through with the divorce with him.
I hope both you and him find happiness
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You can't force a gay man into a relationship with a woman, but you shouldn't be forced to live unhappily.
I'm sorry you're in such a situation, it sounds really rough, but I'd say to go through with the divorce with him.
I hope both you and him find happiness
Thank you.
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But I wanted to transition after we married.
You really should have told him.
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