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I have a type and some would say my type suggests I am insecure or weird which I don't agree with.
Anyway, I would like to be with a girl who:
- is a year or two behind me in studies/career so I'm always ahead and can take care of her
- for her to be someone who doesn't express her emotions (through her face.. someone who must be read)
- for her to not be very outgoing
- for her to be someone who is able to cook food
- for her to be incredibly smart
- for her to be shorter than me
- for her to be a chill person in general
What do you guys think? Am I missing anything
Anyway, I would like to be with a girl who:
- is a year or two behind me in studies/career so I'm always ahead and can take care of her
- for her to be someone who doesn't express her emotions (through her face.. someone who must be read)
- for her to not be very outgoing
- for her to be someone who is able to cook food
- for her to be incredibly smart
- for her to be shorter than me
- for her to be a chill person in general
What do you guys think? Am I missing anything
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#2
Not particularly weird, just very specific/ high standards. I imagine unattainable for all those traits.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
I have a type and some would say my type suggests I am insecure or weird which I don't agree with.
Anyway, I would like to be with a girl who:
- is a year or two behind me in studies/career so I'm always ahead and can take care of her
- for her to be someone who doesn't express her emotions (through her face.. someone who must be read)
- for her to not be very outgoing
- for her to be someone who is able to cook food
- for her to be incredibly smart
- for her to be shorter than me
- for her to be a chill person in general
What do you guys think? Am I missing anything
I have a type and some would say my type suggests I am insecure or weird which I don't agree with.
Anyway, I would like to be with a girl who:
- is a year or two behind me in studies/career so I'm always ahead and can take care of her
- for her to be someone who doesn't express her emotions (through her face.. someone who must be read)
- for her to not be very outgoing
- for her to be someone who is able to cook food
- for her to be incredibly smart
- for her to be shorter than me
- for her to be a chill person in general
What do you guys think? Am I missing anything
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(Original post by PhoenixFortune)
Aren't the two points 'doesn't express emotions' and 'be very outgoing' a little contradictory?
Aren't the two points 'doesn't express emotions' and 'be very outgoing' a little contradictory?
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Oddly specific and wholly unrealistic.
You desire them to be below you in both their studies and career, but then wish for them to be highly intelligent and introverted. So what you mean, is that you want a girl who's intelligence is below yours, can fulfil tasks for you (such as preparing food), and that can fuel your ego by providing you a means of validation.
You need a puppy, not a girlfriend.
You desire them to be below you in both their studies and career, but then wish for them to be highly intelligent and introverted. So what you mean, is that you want a girl who's intelligence is below yours, can fulfil tasks for you (such as preparing food), and that can fuel your ego by providing you a means of validation.
You need a puppy, not a girlfriend.
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(Original post by Bexjw)
Not particularly weird, just very specific/ high standards. I imagine unattainable for all those traits.
Not particularly weird, just very specific/ high standards. I imagine unattainable for all those traits.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
I have a type and some would say my type suggests I am insecure or weird which I don't agree with.
Anyway, I would like to be with a girl who:
- is a year or two behind me in studies/career so I'm always ahead and can take care of her
- for her to be someone who doesn't express her emotions (through her face.. someone who must be read)
- for her to not be very outgoing
- for her to be someone who is able to cook food
- for her to be incredibly smart
- for her to be shorter than me
- for her to be a chill person in general
What do you guys think? Am I missing anything
I have a type and some would say my type suggests I am insecure or weird which I don't agree with.
Anyway, I would like to be with a girl who:
- is a year or two behind me in studies/career so I'm always ahead and can take care of her
- for her to be someone who doesn't express her emotions (through her face.. someone who must be read)
- for her to not be very outgoing
- for her to be someone who is able to cook food
- for her to be incredibly smart
- for her to be shorter than me
- for her to be a chill person in general
What do you guys think? Am I missing anything
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(Original post by PhoenixFortune)
Aren't the two points 'doesn't express emotions' and 'be very outgoing' a little contradictory?
Aren't the two points 'doesn't express emotions' and 'be very outgoing' a little contradictory?
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#9
Lol good luck. Maybe you should adopt a dog instead. It's a lot closer to your criteria. Although even dogs show emotions.
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Why do they always need to be lower than you in their career? Seems like male chauvinism to me. If you want someone intelligent, it is likely that they will meet or exceed you in terms of qualifications/career at some point.
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(Original post by PhoenixFortune)
Why do they always need to be lower than you in their career? Seems like male chauvinism to me. If you want someone intelligent, it is likely that they will meet or exceed you in terms of qualifications/career at some point.
Why do they always need to be lower than you in their career? Seems like male chauvinism to me. If you want someone intelligent, it is likely that they will meet or exceed you in terms of qualifications/career at some point.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
Oddly specific and wholly unrealistic.
You desire them to be below you in both their studies and career, but then wish for them to be highly intelligent and introverted. So what you mean, is that you want a girl who's intelligence is below yours, can fulfil tasks for you (such as preparing food), and that can fuel your ego by providing you a means of validation.
You need a puppy, not a girlfriend.
Oddly specific and wholly unrealistic.
You desire them to be below you in both their studies and career, but then wish for them to be highly intelligent and introverted. So what you mean, is that you want a girl who's intelligence is below yours, can fulfil tasks for you (such as preparing food), and that can fuel your ego by providing you a means of validation.
You need a puppy, not a girlfriend.
(Original post by Final Fantasy)
Lol good luck. Maybe you should adopt a dog instead. It's a lot closer to your criteria. Although even dogs show emotions.
Lol good luck. Maybe you should adopt a dog instead. It's a lot closer to your criteria. Although even dogs show emotions.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
Seems weird to me. You just want someone to not express her emotions, essentially someone emotionless and to not have any friends. Find this super weird and creepy
Seems weird to me. You just want someone to not express her emotions, essentially someone emotionless and to not have any friends. Find this super weird and creepy
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(Original post by Anonymous)
Is there any in particular that make it seem like anyone asking for the same would be asking for too much?
Is there any in particular that make it seem like anyone asking for the same would be asking for too much?
It’s a combination that just doesn’t mix.
Someone who’s shorter than you and able to cook is more achievable. Not a guarantee of course.
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#16
(Original post by Anonymous)
Why wouldn't I want her to have friends? All I said was for her to be similar to me because I'm not outgoing
Why wouldn't I want her to have friends? All I said was for her to be similar to me because I'm not outgoing
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(Original post by Anonymous)
They don't like it when a WOMAN is better than them. This is what watching p*rn does to a mf
They don't like it when a WOMAN is better than them. This is what watching p*rn does to a mf
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(Original post by Anonymous)
I didn't say anywhere that I would like her to be below me? I just imagine it would be difficult for me
I would like someone who can express their emotions I just meant for her to trust that she can go to me for help ahh man I must have a problem with jealousy
I didn't say anywhere that I would like her to be below me? I just imagine it would be difficult for me
I would like someone who can express their emotions I just meant for her to trust that she can go to me for help ahh man I must have a problem with jealousy
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(Original post by Anonymous)
I didn't say anywhere that I would like her to be below me? I just imagine it would be difficult for me
I would like someone who can express their emotions I just meant for her to trust that she can go to me for help ahh man I must have a problem with jealousy
I didn't say anywhere that I would like her to be below me? I just imagine it would be difficult for me
I would like someone who can express their emotions I just meant for her to trust that she can go to me for help ahh man I must have a problem with jealousy
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(Original post by Anonymous)
Not outgoing means not liking to speak to other people other than you I assume. That sounds super creepy and controlling and I guarantee most women do NOT want that
Not outgoing means not liking to speak to other people other than you I assume. That sounds super creepy and controlling and I guarantee most women do NOT want that
(Original post by Bexjw)
You want someone who’s incredibly smart but can’t be ahead of you in career or studies. You want them to be ‘chill’ yet not show their emotions. You also want them to be shy/ not very outgoing.
It’s a combination that just doesn’t mix.
Someone who’s shorter than you and able to cook is more achievable. Not a guarantee of course.
You want someone who’s incredibly smart but can’t be ahead of you in career or studies. You want them to be ‘chill’ yet not show their emotions. You also want them to be shy/ not very outgoing.
It’s a combination that just doesn’t mix.
Someone who’s shorter than you and able to cook is more achievable. Not a guarantee of course.
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