The other users are right, I'm afraid. The best revenge is getting on with your life, being happy and successful and not needing to rely on her anymore.
I know someone who's mum treated them awfully, very manipulative and abusive. They eventually had enough, moved into their dad's house and have very limited contact with their mum, who is still bitter and still trying to make this person feel guilty for moving out, still rubbing it in their face that they have 'mother daughter days' with other girls who aren't even her daughter. But they just ignore it. If her mum is going out of her way to cause drama and upset her then she's only looking for a reaction, the most infuriating thing you can do to someone who wants to piss you off is to rise above it all, move on, and show them you can live your life without their influence or control.