My boyfriend puts me down because he “doesn’t want me to be confident”

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I had a huge amount of confidence before I met my boyfriend. But recently and I mean 3-4 months now he puts me down says I’m ugly, calls me a ***** etc and say it’s Bc he doesn’t want my confidence to high Bc her rather me be insecure.
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Are you sure that you want him to be your bf rather than toxic ex?
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I'm not sure what debate there is to be had here. This is intsa-dump behaviour.
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Anonymous #1
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(Original post by londonmyst)
Are you sure that you want him to be your bf rather than toxic ex?
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I had a huge amount of confidence before I met my boyfriend. But recently and I mean 3-4 months now he puts me down says I’m ugly, calls me a ***** etc and say it’s Bc he doesn’t want my confidence to high Bc her rather me be insecure.
That's evil.

It's also stupid.
Stupid from his point of view. Because confident girlfriends are wonderful.

I really hate bullies.
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Err so do the obvious and dump him?
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(Original post by LovelyMrFox)
Err so do the obvious and dump him?
We all know that never happens. They just let the toxicity ensue because it's the right thing to to. Apparently.
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That's evil.

It's also stupid.
Stupid from his point of view. Because confident girlfriends are wonderful.

I really hate bullies.
Oh no it’s fine he will get his Karma thanks guys for opening my eyes
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(Original post by Anonymous)
I had a huge amount of confidence before I met my boyfriend. But recently and I mean 3-4 months now he puts me down says I’m ugly, calls me a ***** etc and say it’s Bc he doesn’t want my confidence to high Bc her rather me be insecure.
it sounds as if he wants you all to himself, girl please break him up with him, it ain’t good for your mental and physical health at all.
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The only reasonable answer here is to dump him.
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