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So my boyfriend has a lot of females that are friends I wouldn’t have a problem with a few or more but I’m talking his Snapchat is full of them. He says he doesn’t talk to half of them but it makes me worried
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I can relate to this well. The best thing to do here is to talk to him about it. Let him know you feel uncomfortable about it and if he respects you and has no ties with these other females he'd make boundaries and respect you enough to consider your feelings. If he doesn't that shows how much he respects you and your relationship with him. Btw by boundaries, I mean keeping these females at a distance and talking to them at a minimum, especially if they're his exes. Most people would say to trust him and let it go, but in order to trust someone, they have to prove their trust to you in some kind of way.
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#3
Some people just...mainly have friends of the opposite gender?
Talk to him about how you're feeling and hopefully he can reassure you and take your feelings on board
That said, he's under no obligation to ditch his friends because of you, so I'd be wary of making him 'choose'!
Talk to him about how you're feeling and hopefully he can reassure you and take your feelings on board
That said, he's under no obligation to ditch his friends because of you, so I'd be wary of making him 'choose'!
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(Original post by Anonymous)
So my boyfriend has a lot of females that are friends I wouldn’t have a problem with a few or more but I’m talking his Snapchat is full of them. He says he doesn’t talk to half of them but it makes me worried
So my boyfriend has a lot of females that are friends I wouldn’t have a problem with a few or more but I’m talking his Snapchat is full of them. He says he doesn’t talk to half of them but it makes me worried
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You're worrying about them, but has your boyfriend ever given you reason to worry or is the issue with you and a lack of trust in him?
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Just leave the guy in peace, otherwise it's a sure road to him becoming your ex-boyfriend, which will be achieving exactly what you set out to avoid. If he's committed to you, then he's committed to you. The fact of him having a bunch of girls on snapchat isn't going to change that.
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(Original post by kasuke)
I can relate to this well. The best thing to do here is to talk to him about it. Let him know you feel uncomfortable about it and if he respects you and has no ties with these other females he'd make boundaries and respect you enough to consider your feelings. If he doesn't that shows how much he respects you and your relationship with him. Btw by boundaries, I mean keeping these females at a distance and talking to them at a minimum, especially if they're his exes. Most people would say to trust him and let it go, but in order to trust someone, they have to prove their trust to you in some kind of way.
I can relate to this well. The best thing to do here is to talk to him about it. Let him know you feel uncomfortable about it and if he respects you and has no ties with these other females he'd make boundaries and respect you enough to consider your feelings. If he doesn't that shows how much he respects you and your relationship with him. Btw by boundaries, I mean keeping these females at a distance and talking to them at a minimum, especially if they're his exes. Most people would say to trust him and let it go, but in order to trust someone, they have to prove their trust to you in some kind of way.
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(Original post by BubbleBop)
he's just keeping his options open. most relationships dont last forever
he's just keeping his options open. most relationships dont last forever
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(Original post by kasuke)
expect by someone with your name
expect by someone with your name
But, did you expect
Spoiler:
Show
That I was a female?
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(Original post by Anonymous)
So my boyfriend has a lot of females that are friends I wouldn’t have a problem with a few or more but I’m talking his Snapchat is full of them. He says he doesn’t talk to half of them but it makes me worried
So my boyfriend has a lot of females that are friends I wouldn’t have a problem with a few or more but I’m talking his Snapchat is full of them. He says he doesn’t talk to half of them but it makes me worried
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(Original post by Surnia)
You're worrying about them, but has your boyfriend ever given you reason to worry or is the issue with you and a lack of trust in him?
You're worrying about them, but has your boyfriend ever given you reason to worry or is the issue with you and a lack of trust in him?
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He would be a wuss to allow a girl to control his interactions with other girls. Ofc it's up to the girl to decide the degree to which she will handle this reality.
Personally I'd view this as invasive and controlling and dispense immediately with a guy who tried that move on me. He doesn't own me or who I talk to, not b4 we met, not now, and not afterwards.
Also if he has female friends u can be fairly sure he's not an incel... and if u r not jelly u could get to know some cool new girlfriends too.
Personally I'd view this as invasive and controlling and dispense immediately with a guy who tried that move on me. He doesn't own me or who I talk to, not b4 we met, not now, and not afterwards.
Also if he has female friends u can be fairly sure he's not an incel... and if u r not jelly u could get to know some cool new girlfriends too.
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(Original post by candydiva)
He would be a wuss to allow a girl to control his interactions with other girls. Ofc it's up to the girl to decide the degree to which she will handle this reality.
Personally I'd view this as invasive and controlling and dispense immediately with a guy who tried that move on me. He doesn't own me or who I talk to, not b4 we met, not now, and not afterwards.
Also if he has female friends u can be fairly sure he's not an incel... and if u r not jelly u could get to know some cool new girlfriends too.
He would be a wuss to allow a girl to control his interactions with other girls. Ofc it's up to the girl to decide the degree to which she will handle this reality.
Personally I'd view this as invasive and controlling and dispense immediately with a guy who tried that move on me. He doesn't own me or who I talk to, not b4 we met, not now, and not afterwards.
Also if he has female friends u can be fairly sure he's not an incel... and if u r not jelly u could get to know some cool new girlfriends too.
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