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true though it was still wrong of me. maybe I am panicing a bit, I don't believe somone of his character could do this....or maybe I am trying to make myself feel better. God I don't know what to think. All I know is that its 6am and I am sick to my stomach.
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thanks for talking to me by the way. Im a mess
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no worries.

As I said, you did nothing wrong. Just get everything in the clear.
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Im worried he may change his email passwords and continue talking with this woman. It is his right to change them I suppose though he never seemed to have a problem before
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ok, you change the password first then, that way he has to fess up and you get any more incoming mail.
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(Original post by sublime_envy)
true though it was still wrong of me. maybe I am panicing a bit, I don't believe somone of his character could do this....or maybe I am trying to make myself feel better. God I don't know what to think. All I know is that its 6am and I am sick to my stomach.
I would feel the same way about it, it's hard not to feel abit guilty, just don't let yourself feel too guilty. You really did not do anything wrong. Like you said he knew you had his password so no problem there. Just say "look I'm sorry I read your email, I feel bad for doing that, but I feel even worse about what I read"
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ok, you change the password first then, that way he has to fess up and you get any more incoming mail.
oooooh that's good.
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ok, you change the password first then, that way he has to fess up and you get any more incoming mail.
you are a genius but perhaps that would be taking it too far? Its not his main email account though it is for msn messenger which I speak to him on. Would that block him from msn?
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yes, i know... *evil grin*
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you are a genius but perhaps that would be taking it too far? Its not his main email account though it is for msn messenger which I speak to him on. Would that block him from msn?
Nothing is too far until you know what is going on my dear. If its a simple misunderstanding, then there is no harm done.
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I deleated that nice email I sent him as I am feeling very pissed off at the moment. my current email quotes her own and says: "explain yourself now. Yes I shouldnt have seen this and it was wrong of me but you better have some good explanations as I am so close to leaving you right now."

I am awaiting a brainwave for more
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I would do it if he could get onto msn messenger as that is really the only way we can communicate. God I should really stop reading this email.

"Not really sure where in
the world you are just now, so not sure if you were able to do much. If not we will
just have to make up for it when u get back."
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I would do it if he could get onto msn messenger as that is really the only way we can communicate. God I should really stop reading this email.

"Not really sure where in
the world you are just now, so not sure if you were able to do much. If not we will
just have to make up for it when u get back."
:eek: This is from 'amanda'? Not good. Damn he's really got some explaining to do.
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Ok here is what else you can do. Bide your time and collect copies of his e-mails from this girl then send him copies of the copies you have and ask whats going on.
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yes I'm afraid he does. and yes it is from the same girl. god I just wish my mum was here. I have so much stress without this. I am glad I saw it though, in a weird way. I like to know things rather than be in the dark
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Ok here is what else you can do. Bide your time and collect copies of his e-mails from this girl then send him copies of the copies you have and ask whats going on.
there won't be anymore emails as he is in hospital and from what she has said hasn't talked to her since before xmas
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hmmm, well id talk to him, if he dances around the subject, dump him. You dont want to be married to someone who puts doubt into your mind. Thats no way to live.
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hmmm, well id talk to him, if he dances around the subject, dump him. You dont want to be married to someone who puts doubt into your mind. Thats no way to live.
yes I will do. Im not a weak person who would stick around where I knew I wouldn't be loved and honoured.
my respose reads:

explain yourself now. Yes I shouldnt have seen this and it was wrong of me but you better have some good explanations as I am so close to leaving you right now. I would walk if I were a lesser person but I am commited to you so that means I will see this relationship through, even if it does end now. This is so utterly disrespectful to me it makes me sick.
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very good.
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again thanks for your help. it means a lot even though its on a forum. Unfortuantly 6:30am would be too early to call upon friends and I wouldn't want them to think badly of him before I know the whole story.
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