I have no friends.All my friends are in Italy and since the day I came in this country I haven't made many new friends (actually only 6,but we never talk to each other cause we are too busy).Most of my social interactions happen online with my old italian friends.
One of the reasons why I am unable to make friends in this country is the fact that I am too shy and uncapable of expressing myself with strangers and also because I am not very fluent with my english and cannot understand every accents. (I am the MOST EXTROVERT person when I am in group of people I know well).I am the most quiet and unexpressive person in public.One of my classmates also asked me if I have any feelings since (according to her) I have a "robotic voice" (I think that's because I constantly wear mask at school and I am often dehydrated so my voice becomes low pitched and robotic) and also because I smile or laugh rarely when I am with strangers.
I have no productive hobbies.Everyday is the same...go to school,study,go back to home,study more and go to bed...not saying that I hate doing monotonous things...I LIKE DOING SAME THINGS everyday...but it upsets me the fact that I can't find purpose or meaning in what I am doing.At least playing videogames or watching anime gives me instant gratification.I am doing A-Levels in biology,chemistry,physics and maths.I am excelling in all my a levels and scoring the best grades in the entire science department (not sure about the maths one since there might be kids from further maths who perform better than me...but I am surely the best in my class accademically).This is my routine now.I guess that's the only "talent" I have,which is genuine passion for science.Aside from that I have nothing...I am not very athletic,I can't sing.I can't do anything.I dont even know what I am studying for.
Yes,I love sciences,but where can I go with it..none of the Uni courses seems stimulating or perfect in terms of salary or job satisfaction.I love all 3 sciences equally and unfortunately I dont have money and time to have 3 degrees in Biology,chemistry,physics to satisfy my desire of knowledge and specializing in only one science field by getting only one degree is not very stimulating to me and there arent many safe multidisciplinary science degrees either...I love when the science knowledges join together (reason why I am doing all three sciences,because I want to have a whole picture of the natural and physical world and I am thirsty of knowledge).It's just frustrating that there isn't even a uni science course that gives you high salary and ESPESCIALLY job security guaranteed in addition of being coursewise satisfying.
The second reason why I work so hard accademically is because my parents and my
ENTIRE family are expecting me to get into medicine and do great stuff and contribute for our family respect and prestige.I am listening to my parents because I don't have any dreams even though I am performing brilliantly at school.I don't know what else to do if I didn't follow my parents' orders so I feel safer following their instructions.
If I imagine myself in future I'd like to have my relaxed,mindless routine of when I was in Italy back.
When I was in italy my routine was to go school and once I get home I never studied (ironic...I used to perform VERY poorly back then and get the LOWEST grades in my entire school.The only subject where I outperformed anyone was science.)...Instead I rushed 12 or 20 episodes of anime in one go/played skyrim or any other videogame or simply watch youtube videos or laugh at funny or cringe memes or go playing football with friends and kids of my city.
So in a nutshell,I'd like a quiet and relaxed and low stressed life as a gamer/weeb.