i think my standards are too high

I think I have been looking at girls and looking for a perfect type girl. Like one that is ****** hot, and someone I could see myself in a realtionship with. At the minute there's this one girl who likes me and she's ok, I would do her but I just don't want a relationship with her. She doesn't feel good looking enough. Then there's the personality as well etc.

Like when I look at other girls that interest me, most are ones I would want to 'do', but I Don't think I can actually be bothered with the whole dating malarky. It's only when I meet a girl that I think wooow, in every way that I really think to myself that I want a committed relationship. But usually if I get horny about some girl it's usually because I wouldn't mind banging her but like I said I don't think I could be bothered to take them to the cinema or take them out. Likewise this girl who likes me, I really am not interested in taking her out, I don't feel that way for her but I would love to shag her. So in the end I think it's not worth it as I'll probably have to take them out etc also half of me thinks I don't want to be seen with some of the girls that I am horny about, not because they are ugly but because they're not even my type but they just are horny, if that makes sense? But when i screw my head on and think about it, there is no way I want a relationship with them whatsoever. The key thing for me firstly is looks. I feel that I only want to be in a relationship with a girl that totally blows me away, not just physically but also as a person.

Now I know this isn't exactly the correct attitude to have but it's just how I see it. Do any other guys think the same way?

It gets to me because I'm angry with myself and don't know what I should do.

I feel like I'm craving for sex and I'm also craving for a relationship lol!

Reply 1

username129099

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I know what you mean, I find that if she isn't proper fit then I just am not interested, if I want to get to know her then I will just as a friend. Its a bad attitude but not one that is easy to change.

Reply 2

Lisa.22

you must be soooo vein???

Reply 3

Anonymous #1

OP

if they're not proper fit but still fit then they interest me. but like i said only in the bedroom. i would only want a realtionship with someone who i genuinely think is super fit and good person etc

Reply 4

Anonymous #1

OP

Lisa.22

you must be soooo vein???

coming from an Essex girl oh the irony

you do realise that many men are like this I would guess? Do you think lets just take Ronaldo, Rooney, Rio Ferdinand for examples. Take any star in the world, do you think they will want to settle for averageish looking ladies?! I would imagine they want the cream of the crop and I am no different!

Reply 5

RoosterUK

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Out of interest, I'm guessing you get a lot of girls attracted to you?

Reply 6

Mispar

Anonymous

coming from an Essex girl oh the irony

you do realise that many men are like this I would guess? Do you think lets just take Ronaldo, Rooney, Rio Ferdinand for examples. Take any star in the world, do you think they will want to settle for averageish looking ladies?! I would imagine they want the cream of the crop and I am no different!

You aren't Rio Ferdinand you misogynistic ******. And before you compare yourself to Wayne Rooney, you should recognise that he looks like Shrek.

Reply 7

Anonymous #1

OP

nothing more than the usual that i'm aware of

Reply 8

Anonymous #1

OP

Mispar

You aren't Rio Ferdinand you misogynistic ******. And before you compare yourself to Wayne Rooney, you should recognise that he looks like Shrek.

I randomly plucked those names together because most people will have heard of them you fool.

OK take any star that anyone knows then if that pleases you you mug.

Reply 9

Lisa.22

just coz im from essex doesn't mean im like that!!! why do people think that!!!!

Reply 10

Friggerpants

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I thought girls from Essex are blonde, dumb and drive chavved up soft top Escorts?

Or is that an stereotype/

Reply 11

Mispar

Anonymous

I randomly plucked those names together because most people will have heard of them you fool.

OK take any star that anyone knows then if that pleases you you mug.

You still aren't one of them. And you won't get anywhere with girls if you objectify them that way. Why on earth would any of them want a relationship with you?

Reply 12

Lisa.22

of course it's a stereotype!!!!!
well maybe not for some parts of essex
but its the same everywhere... everywhere is gunna have blonde dumb girls

Reply 13

Lisa.22

you talk about girls as if they have no brains... sex objects... we can feel things you know

Reply 14

alexmahone

Anonymous

I randomly plucked those names together because most people will have heard of them you fool.

OK take any star that anyone knows then if that pleases you you mug.

It's a shame that we can't neg anonymous users.

Reply 15

Friggerpants

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Lisa.22

of course it's a stereotype!!!!!
well maybe not for some parts of essex
but its the same everywhere... everywhere is gunna have blonde dumb girls

WRONG.

Derby doesn't have girls full stop, just sheep.

Reply 16

gamer91

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Anonymous

coming from an Essex girl oh the irony

you do realise that many men are like this I would guess? Do you think lets just take Ronaldo, Rooney, Rio Ferdinand for examples. Take any star in the world, do you think they will want to settle for averageish looking ladies?! I would imagine they want the cream of the crop and I am no different!

what an intellectual and spiritual sample you have selected.

Reply 17

Jamezzy

I find it funny that you are compairing yourself to profesional footballers hahaha!

I also think that you are really vein

Reply 18

Anonymous #1

OP

Lisa.22

you talk about girls as if they have no brains... sex objects... we can feel things you know

don't be so silly .... most men at around the ages of 16/17/18/19 will look at girls as sex objects ... make no mistake about it!

Reply 19

Withoutadoubt

Anonymous

you do realise that many men are like this I would guess? Do you think lets just take Ronaldo, Rooney, Rio Ferdinand for examples. Take any star in the world, do you think they will want to settle for averageish looking ladies?! I would imagine they want the cream of the crop and I am no different!

So the aanswer to your problems is to become one of the four best players at United? I've never got the impression from Rooney's wife that she'd make scintillating conversationalist or anywhere near it.

i think my standards are too high

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