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This is wrong!!!

Hey guys,
I just found out that my older half brother who is 25 years old is dating a CHILD around my age, she's only 14 years old. Like wtf...this is so ****ed up I can't put my head around the idea that his is okay...:frown:
I will never be able to see him the same after this.

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TakKov
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This is definitely wrong, you should speak to your parents about this. A 25 year old adult should not be dating a 14 year old child
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Original post by Anonymous
Hey guys,
I just found out that my older half brother who is 25 years old is dating a CHILD around my age, she's only 14 years old. Like wtf...this is so ****ed up I can't put my head around the idea that his is okay...:frown:
I will never be able to see him the same after this.


how did you find out?
Original post by Anonymous
Hey guys,
I just found out that my older half brother who is 25 years old is dating a CHILD around my age, she's only 14 years old. Like wtf...this is so ****ed up I can't put my head around the idea that his is okay...:frown:
I will never be able to see him the same after this.

I am sorry, that must have been a really nasty shock.
Where you close to him before you found out?
How certain are you?
Make sure you preserve any evidence of his wrongdoing.
My heart goes out to you, your family and his victim.
(edited 3 years ago)
Original post by Anonymous
Hey guys,
I just found out that my older half brother who is 25 years old is dating a CHILD around my age, she's only 14 years old. Like wtf...this is so ****ed up I can't put my head around the idea that his is okay...:frown:
I will never be able to see him the same after this.

Isn’t that illegal? I’m sorry you’re going through this.

Can you talk to your brother? Granted you won’t be able to perceive him the same again, but communication is ones great strength.
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Original post by glassalice
Make sure you preserve any evidence of his wrongdoing.



are you saying she should grass up her own brother to the authorities?
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Original post by ANM775
how did you find out?


My mum told me
Original post by ANM775
are you saying she should grass up her own brother to the authorities?

If she (the 14 year old victim) was your sister, what would you want OP to do?
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Original post by glassalice
I am sorry, that must have been a really nasty shock.
Where you close to him before you found out?
How certain are you?
Make sure you preserve any evidence of his wrongdoing.
My heart goes out to you, your family and his victim.

I just found out, my mum is okay with it like wtffff!
and no we've never been close, we barely ever talk
woah do not ignore this
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Original post by glassalice
If she (the 14 year old victim) was your sister, what would you want OP to do?


don't answer a question with a question.
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And your mum is okay with it??
Original post by TakKov
This is definitely wrong, you should speak to your parents about this. A 25 year old adult should not be dating a 14 year old child

My mum literally said it was fine...?
Original post by ANM775
are you saying she should grass up her own brother to the authorities?

Come it isn't like OP has caught their step brother smoking a joint OR shoplifting vodka. OPs step brother is causing real harm.

OFC OP should report him to the authorities.

Original post by ANM775
don't answer a question with a question.

Now, can you answer my question?
(edited 3 years ago)
Original post by LovelyMrFox
And your mum is okay with it??

YESSS!
Omg I'm freaking out, like we are about the same age and both of them think this is okay.
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Original post by glassalice
Come it isn't like OP has caught their step brother smoking a joint OR shoplifting vodka. OPs step brother is causing real harm.

OFC OP should report him to the authorities.


Now, can you answer my question?


I do not think family should grass each other up......


as for if it was my 14 year old sister seeing a man of 25 ... i doubt i'd be happy with it, and would probably be pleased if someone grassed him up, ...however having said that if it was my brother who was 25 and seeing a 14 year old girl, i'd probably just sit him down and strongly advise him against it, rather than go running to the police
Original post by Anonymous
Hey guys,
I just found out that my older half brother who is 25 years old is dating a CHILD around my age, she's only 14 years old. Like wtf...this is so ****ed up I can't put my head around the idea that his is okay...:frown:
I will never be able to see him the same after this.


I would be on the phone to social work about this ASAP...
Original post by Anonymous
YESSS!
Omg I'm freaking out, like we are about the same age and both of them think this is okay.

Is this in the UK?
If you have evidence then you should report them imo, but at the moment you are an anonymous poster on a message board that is known for trolls.
Original post by 999tigger
Is this in the UK?
If you have evidence then you should report them imo, but at the moment you are an anonymous poster on a message board that is known for trolls.

No, I'm not a troll, but this is just not okay and I needed some advice on it
Original post by Anonymous
No, I'm not a troll, but this is just not okay and I needed some advice on it

Childline 08001111 would be ideal.

You didnt confirm whether both are in the UK.

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