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So I recently got into a relationship but I don't want to show affection. When my bf shows affection I cringe and move away is that bad? I should be affectionate like my bf but I'm not I just want to talk with him instead of doing those mushy things like hugging.
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well say to him that you want to take it slow and that you want to learn things first about each other
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If you’re cringing at the sight of affection this relationship is clearly in the very early stages, one might say it’s not even a relationship but a very poorly developed friendship.
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Is your reaction & personality the same with family members or close friends (male and female)?
If not, this could be a warning sign that you are not sexually attracted to him or consider him too lacking in reserve/emotionally needy.
If not, this could be a warning sign that you are not sexually attracted to him or consider him too lacking in reserve/emotionally needy.
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Maybe you need to form an emotional bond before you get comfortable with affection or anything of a sexual nature..
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Yeah tbh I think we should stay friends actually but I don't know how to tell him since I just accepted to date him
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(Original post by Anonymous)
Yeah tbh I think we should stay friends actually but I don't know how to tell him since I just accepted to date him
Yeah tbh I think we should stay friends actually but I don't know how to tell him since I just accepted to date him
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(Original post by Anonymous)
I feel so bad tho like I’m so dumb bec he’s so nice and I’m so ****
I feel so bad tho like I’m so dumb bec he’s so nice and I’m so ****
It is alright.
It seems that you did not really like him. As you said you just accepted to date.
Maybe that is why you cringe when he shows affection to you.
Maybe if you liked him from the get go, you would be more at ease with him.
Just tell him the truth; I am sure he will understand.
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#12
I can’t stand being friends with people who don’t show affection. That’s the whole point of a relationship, to me, if there no is affection there is no relationship.
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If you want to take it slow, then take it slow. There are no ifs, ands, or buts about that, no means no until you're comfortable.
Do you see yourself possibly being affectionate in the future? Do you see a romantic future with him? Are you romantically attracted to him?
If not, then I would probably reconsider, but relationships arent a fast thing.
Do you see yourself possibly being affectionate in the future? Do you see a romantic future with him? Are you romantically attracted to him?
If not, then I would probably reconsider, but relationships arent a fast thing.
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#14
Are you asexual? Maybe you just like having platonic relationships and friendships rather than physical ones.
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(Original post by Final Fantasy)
Are you asexual? Maybe you just like having platonic relationships and friendships rather than physical ones.
Are you asexual? Maybe you just like having platonic relationships and friendships rather than physical ones.
Do you mean Aromantic??
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(Original post by oo00_Sage_00oo)
Asexual is a possibility, but you can still have a romantic relationship and be romantic and affectionate.
Do you mean Aromantic??
Asexual is a possibility, but you can still have a romantic relationship and be romantic and affectionate.
Do you mean Aromantic??
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(Original post by Final Fantasy)
No idea. Some people don't like having sex and just wanna be close and cuddle and ****. Each their own.
No idea. Some people don't like having sex and just wanna be close and cuddle and ****. Each their own.
No sexual attraction = Asexual
You can have romantic attraction and touch and stuff, but you have no sexual desires towards anyone.
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(Original post by oo00_Sage_00oo)
No romantic attraction = Aromantic
No sexual attraction = Asexual
You can have romantic attraction and touch and stuff, but you have no sexual desires towards anyone.
No romantic attraction = Aromantic
No sexual attraction = Asexual
You can have romantic attraction and touch and stuff, but you have no sexual desires towards anyone.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
So I recently got into a relationship but I don't want to show affection. When my bf shows affection I cringe and move away is that bad? I should be affectionate like my bf but I'm not I just want to talk with him instead of doing those mushy things like hugging.
So I recently got into a relationship but I don't want to show affection. When my bf shows affection I cringe and move away is that bad? I should be affectionate like my bf but I'm not I just want to talk with him instead of doing those mushy things like hugging.
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