(Original post by Ghost)
If you could go back in time, how would you change things? Would you never have even started going out with her? Ended it on the first break up?
im not a prude. im not a chump - i wasnt "love struk".
during the past year ive experianced the strongest feelings ive ever had for another person. and the truth is, id rather have saved them and my self for some one i truely love. sex and what it is, is so fuKed up today. people who think its not a big deal just cant accept they made a mistake or theres some other really trumantic, phyc-y reasoning behind why they think like that.
this may be old fashioned but i would find it so difficult knowing that my future girlfriend (or even wife) has been with some one else.
is it better to have loved and lost then to never have loved at all? no, but to think you'l never love anyone at all is way overly pesemestic and i think it can happen to anyone.
ive realised that the "connection" i thought we had was nothing but over run hormones with pop culture realationship ideals from romance movies and soppy songs. the fact is EVERYONE has these problems and if anyone is willing to open up you can have that with ANYONE.
and i think i would have gone through the same thing with any girl who was intrested in me as i was with her (all it is, is the inital attraction, the rest is work done by the two of you).
truth is, very few people truely know who they are ever in thier life time, at this age, its even more blurred and ever changing.