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(Original post by thefish_uk)
Hmm...

A couple of weeks ago one of my friends said (to a girl) "95% of guys are *******s".

Who'd agree? I would actually, I know lots of loud show-offy *******ised guys who always have girlfriends to look cool, and a few quieter types who just want a a loving partner to stay with. I know which kind I am.
The problem is, so many women like *******s. We are TAUGHT to like *******s.

Look at romantic heros. Darcy - *******. Heathcliffe - *******. Russel Crowe - *******.

Women are always convinced that the 'love of a good woman' will bring him round. And we're ALL guilty of it. I myself am only attracted to incredibly arrogant *******s. :hmpf:
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i dont go for looks at all! Personality means the most! ive had relationships with some real good looking LOSERS. if the 'ugly' guys stopped thinking so low of themselves maybe more of us girls would be attracted to them. no one want boyfriens who think there a totallly loser!
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(Original post by platinumki)
The problem is, so many women like *******s. We are TAUGHT to like *******s.

Look at romantic heros. Darcy - *******. Heathcliffe - *******. Russel Crowe - *******.

Women are always convinced that the 'love of a good woman' will bring him round. And we're ALL guilty of it. I myself am only attracted to incredibly arrogant *******s. :hmpf:
lol, theyre not *******s, they're called "Byronic Heros", people who are dark and mysterious and.. umm... "sexy"

But I'm thinking about people like kevs/scallies/chavs and other people who are shallow and arrogant.

btw- how come your name is in blue but no other subscribers' are?
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I think the "masculine but with a sensitive side" type of bloke is most successful.
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Good sense of humour, ability to cheer me up just by hugging me, affectionate, willing to look after me even though I'm a stubborn cow, and manners are very important.
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(Original post by thefish_uk)
btw- how come your name is in blue but no other subscribers' are?
I don't know.

And Byron was a bit of a ******* himself if I remember correctly.....

(Original post by MrWhite)
I think the "masculine but with a sensitive side" type of bloke is most successful.
I wish him luck. But doesn't he get lonely, all on his tod?
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Women are always convinced that the 'love of a good woman' will bring him round. And we're ALL guilty of it. I myself am only attracted to incredibly arrogant *******s. :hmpf:

LOl i totally agree with you. It really sucks, but we think hes perfect, and in the end we realised wat an EDiiiiiaat he turned out to be, and we still want to go back!!
we're helpless arent we?!

I LIke a good package, :P personality, luks, intelligence, decency, sexy, caring very difficult to find, so normally i have to give up 2 or 3 of these qualities!
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(Original post by thefish_uk)
I know which kind I am.
so does gemgems probably :aetsch:
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I wonder if the perfect man is out there? lol
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Well personally, first thing are they attractive - or do we find them attractive.
Secondly do some digging around them - do they have a reputation.
Thirdly, if the first 2 work out well, get to know them - I want a guy who has a sense of humour, charming, a sense of rhythm and dance, interest in music - there needs to be some form of common ground.

I guess....I just haven't had any luck in this area because I ignore 2, skip to 3, and get direly hurt.

So I get stuck with people who mess me about, and they are like chameleons so they are no good.

Be who you are, and don't put on a front to impress.
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each girl looks for different things!!!!!
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(Original post by platinumki)
The problem is, so many women like *******s. We are TAUGHT to like *******s.

Look at romantic heros. Darcy - *******. Heathcliffe - *******. Russel Crowe - *******.

Women are always convinced that the 'love of a good woman' will bring him round. And we're ALL guilty of it. I myself am only attracted to incredibly arrogant *******s. :hmpf:
Hear hear!!!
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i'd say 60% looks, 40% personality, if i'm being honest :p:
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abit of confidence normally goes along way............
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abit of confidence normally goes along way............
:eek: you're a girl? :confused:
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The problem is, so many women like *******s. We are TAUGHT to like *******s.

Look at romantic heros. Darcy - *******. Heathcliffe - *******. Russel Crowe - *******.

Women are always convinced that the 'love of a good woman' will bring him round. And we're ALL guilty of it. I myself am only attracted to incredibly arrogant *******s. :hmpf:

you think that? cause I typicaly in real life go for the nicer guys....
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:eek: you're a girl? :confused:
LOL no
just making a passing comment
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not true. I have seen sense of humor repeated again and again. for me I would say about 30-40% looks and 60-70% personality.

that being said, I still judge others solely on looks...
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(Original post by lessthanthree)
I go for nice guys too.

Mainly because I like cuddles and being looked after.
hear hear....



except for me, take out the looked after part.
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Women are immensely fickle. I have been told on many an occasion that I'm cute, fit blah blah blah, I have a great sense of humour blah blah... but frankly it all amounts to nothing. I've had 1 gf in the last 2 years and she shagged someone else after 2 weeks :P

Oh well, I think luck (right place right time etc) comes into it a great deal.
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