i dont go for looks at all! Personality means the most! ive had relationships with some real good looking LOSERS. if the 'ugly' guys stopped thinking so low of themselves maybe more of us girls would be attracted to them. no one want boyfriens who think there a totallly loser!
I think the "masculine but with a sensitive side" type of bloke is most successful.
Good sense of humour, ability to cheer me up just by hugging me, affectionate, willing to look after me even though I'm a stubborn cow, and manners are very important.
I wonder if the perfect man is out there? lol
Well personally, first thing are they attractive - or do we find them attractive.
Secondly do some digging around them - do they have a reputation.
Thirdly, if the first 2 work out well, get to know them - I want a guy who has a sense of humour, charming, a sense of rhythm and dance, interest in music - there needs to be some form of common ground.
I guess....I just haven't had any luck in this area because I ignore 2, skip to 3, and get direly hurt.
So I get stuck with people who mess me about, and they are like chameleons so they are no good.
Be who you are, and don't put on a front to impress.
each girl looks for different things!!!!!
abit of confidence normally goes along way............
not true. I have seen sense of humor repeated again and again. for me I would say about 30-40% looks and 60-70% personality.
that being said, I still judge others solely on looks...
Women are immensely fickle. I have been told on many an occasion that I'm cute, fit blah blah blah, I have a great sense of humour blah blah... but frankly it all amounts to nothing. I've had 1 gf in the last 2 years and she shagged someone else after 2 weeks :P
Oh well, I think luck (right place right time etc) comes into it a great deal.