So basically I am in a long distance relationship with my bf who works in the military. He is currently deployed and we are not allowed to communicate. We have been having issues, probably more one sided as I feel like he just doesn’t appreciate me. I am a person big on celebrations like birthdays and special days, but he forgot my birthday eventhough we met up for a birthday dinner. He got me a birthday gift 2 weeks later and that was that. This incident really bugged me and we did talk about it but he only said sorry to me when i told him my feelings. We got separated soon after COVID and had to do long distance. He wrote me a letter before he left and that was it for the 10 months, and we are not allowed any communication so i only have that letter. I know some other girls in my position and i see their bfs scheduling flower deliveries, making “don’t open before” letters and gifts throughout the deployment, but i didnt get anything like this. I know I shouldn’t be comparing and i dont want to sound materialistic but i just feel like i want him to show that he cares about me. My question is, would anyone feel the same if you were in my shoes ? And how should i bring about talking about this when he’s back without sounding spoilt and bratty?