For a couple of months i have been ignoring one of my friends, I stopes contact with her and she obviously must have realized after a few messages and I didn't get back and since then we have not spoke.
I have really liked her for a while now and have tried to deny the feelings I've had for her. And im attracted to the same sex but I'm not allowed to be gay so this is why I stopped talking to her because I didn't want to amplify the feelings I had for her and wanted to what I could do prevent these feelings escalating. And my feelings getting the better of me.
Also she is straight and I know she wouldn't be happy if she knew I was gay.
One of my friends a few weeks just generally spoke about her and told me she had a big argument with her boyfriend. And I really wanted to text her asking her if she was okay but I had to force myself not to, otherwise my feelings would get the better of me and I can't let my gay feelings take control.
And the day my friend told me that this friend of mine had a argument I cried my eyes out.
And I know not talking to her, hurts me, more than it hurts her. But I want her to be happy, and I care so much about her. In secret.
I couldn't tell her how I feel about her, and now I don't even think she'll class me as a friend anymore seen as I cut all contact with her without an explanation.
But I didn't want either of us getting hurt.
I don't want her hurting knowing I've been attracted to her and I'm gay and I don't want to hurt myself or my family because I'm not suppose to be gay and also I know she is straight!