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What are you looking for in a guy, how long before would you enter into a relationship wiht him?
How long I'd wait really depends on how much more I'd like to see. I appreciate:
A respectful guy above all. You know when you catch someone being effortlessly polite? Like letting someone speak, not making it all about them, speaking nicely to or about their family (mum mainly), stand for
something that's right without loosing their cool, letting someone go first, not partaking in bad gossip etc.. It's important because first of all you know that he isn't going to be the gobby type, you can trust him and know that your business is never going to be heard by others or be in every other mouth.

A well groomed man. I'm really not one to look down on a well groomed person. He plucks his stuff, sorts his eyebrows and his body hair? Well then fantastic cause unless he doesn't have any to start with, I'm not showing interest.
Cleanliness is overall is a must for myself which also goes back to trust. I'd like to maybe eat their food, have a cocktail or whatever other non food related stuff without worrying about whether he's had a no. 2 and hasn't washed his hands 🤢

Is useful even if just for himself. Constantly cleaning after them, prepping their food everyday cause they can hardly use the microwave, doing their laundry cause the washing machine is an enigma, having to make phone calls and make life decisions for them cause they're 'too chill'... Things that mums may do (or girlfriends/wives who feel so inclined) are no no's for me.

A tall guy. I'm tall and that's my preference!

How many previous weddings or kids lol. I'm not one to check how many partners, where and how you got down to business and all that stuff but if they had many failed relationships (mainly weddings) and estranged kids, that would tell me more about them then I'd ever need to know. People change and all that, but I'd never look for a challenge or a 'let's wait and see now' kind of relationship.

These things really don't take very long, some people take longer to open up, which is totally understandable and others might take longer to realise that they're ready to settle. I'd give it a go with peace of mind, once I knew the main boxes are ticked anyway. 🙂
Original post by DiamondYeti
What are you looking for in a guy, how long before would you enter into a relationship wiht him?

literally someone whos nice to me and taller than me. which shouldnt be a problem bc im only 5'1
the bar is so low with men
id probably do so after our first date if i think hes a decent person
I date with a lot of dating dealbreakers and a minimum 15 year age gap.
I'm only attracted to heterosexual guys that are above 5'4, dog friendly, bibliophiles, calm, caring, independent, healthy and secular.

Here are my top 25 dating deal-breakers:

1) No bellowing/habitual noise nuisances.
2) No porn guys.
3) No religious zealots or theonomy supporters.
4) No dogma fanatics, sjw's or militant atheists.
5) No thugs.
6) No illegal drugs.
7) No mother's boys/family value is everything types.
8) No gym guys/bodybuilders/health lifestyle obsessives.
9) No sexual kinks involving polyamory/rape fantasy/violence/threesomes/oral/anal/period sex/feet.
10) No dog haters or guys with cynophobia.
11) No divorced guys.
12) No guys with children or a spouse.
13) No STEM or sports studies graduates.
14) No PhDs.
15) No guys obsessed with Israel, zionism, jews, the nwo, the holocaust, Hitler or David Irving.
16) No bald guys.
17) No guys with facial hair or long hair.
18) No guys that require daily medication.
19) No pacifists or anti-abortion absolutists, abortion protesters or financial backers of anti-abortion groups.
20) No immigration lawyers, aid workers or volunteers involved with illegal immigrants.
21) Strictly no scorpios.
22) No guys that want multiple children.
23) No fans of: David Berg, David Duke, Donald Spitz, Mark Collett, Nick Griffin, Nathuram Godse, Richard Spencer, Roosh V, Volkert van der Graaf.
24) No guys that say the n word or type it over social media.
25) No guys that carry any knives outside for "protection" or trying to look like mafia types.
(edited 3 years ago)

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