Not one female finds me attractive in the slightest

Well could you elaborate further on your problems? Have you been taking the initiative?

Can any absolute gurus with the ladies point me in the right direction cause im about as much use as an ashtray on the back of a motorbike at the moment. Nae idea what I'm doing wrong

Well unless you are a handsome man, if you are average or ugly it is not easy

You have to get a good job, own a house, own a car to get a proper girlfriend or wife

If you want flings or sex, go to a prostitute

Just seems to me as if they always want better and im never enough for anyone, really winds me up tbh

Have you tried Google, for a bit of help with your issue?

I can think of 5 youtubers that give the same basic advice, but in different flavours that would - probably - help you a lot.
There's been a few threads on this subject on this section of the forum over the last couple of months.

Find out what constitutes good man to woman social skills, then face down your fears and go out and practise these skills.

I got my first girlfriend when I was a poverty stricken student, with no job, rented room, no car and I would describe myself as not bad look but not particularly handsome.

Looking back on it, it was easy, once I figured a few things out and sorted out my inner world and attitude.

Most of my male friends at uni got girlfriends sooner or later, regardless of their looks, lack of money and lack of a car.

It's great marketing for the car, mortgage, gym, clothing, hairdressing, grooming products companies to associate buying their products with getting a girlfriend.
But that's all it is. Great marketing. You can fall for the marketing like a sheep. Or you can be an eagle and make your own way in life without following the herd.

Whilst looks, money, status symbols are of some importance when it comes to getting a girlfriend, they are a lot less important than good man to woman social skills.

Can any absolute gurus with the ladies point me in the right direction cause im about as much use as an ashtray on the back of a motorbike at the moment. Nae idea what I'm doing wrong

Your just lucky.

And times have changed tbh. A lot of girls nowadays are sugar babies and only want successful or men with good jobs or handsome men

This is complete and utter nonsense and quite insulting to many of the female students reading this.
For sure some women are very transactional and money motivated. But most aren't. Most women are normal people.

The only luck that I had was being born with the brains to self-analyse and to realise where I was going wrong and to go ahead and change it.

What I changed had nothing to do with money or looks.

Oi oi son, your (self-proclaimed) guru is here.

Alright all cringe aside, what have you been doing to try and pull so far? What's your technique? Have you been working on yourself? Hitting the gym, grooming yourself etc?

I think you're attractive anon. Those two gray blobs and poor grammar..

Get some hobbies, dress nicely, socialize with women and mutual friends. Someone is bound to find you attractive at some point, dont rush it in the meantime.

Regarding technique that's probably where it's all going wrong like I get off to a strong start but maybe after 3 weeks of talking I start to fall away a bit and I'm no really sure why. It's probably down to my lack of experience like i have not got a clue how to progress with people and that.

3 weeks of talking?

Try focusing less on the talking less and more on the doing. Doing more fun / enjoyable / interesting / satisfying things with the women you meet.