Is your boyfriend allowed to tell you your putting on weight ?

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Is your boyfriend allowed to tell you your putting on weight ?
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Allowed? Of course he's allowed to. It's a free country. He can say what he wants. Didn't you know that....
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depends wether its a joke or just banta my gf tells me im putting on weight but i know its just banta
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It's not like it's against the law or anything 😂
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Is your boyfriend allowed to tell you your putting on weight ?
Depends what tone he said it in
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Technically? Yes.

Is it a smart move? No.
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Well your in a relationship, ofc he can tell you anything. But, it depends on you. If its bothering you then talk to him about it. Be honest.
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Is your boyfriend allowed to tell you your putting on weight ?
allowed against whom?
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Yes. If your boyfriend can’t say honest things that you might not like, good luck keeping that relationship going in the long run, because over your life together he’s Going to have to say plenty of things that you’ll like even less.

Of course your partner is allowed to say tings you don’t like.
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Allowed? He's not exactly going to be sent to prison for it.

In all honesty, it really depends. Nobody is going to be happy about it but if he's doing it for your health then it's brutal honesty I guess. His delivery is very important in judging this one.
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It’s your relationship. Set up the rules
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Yes. If your boyfriend can’t say honest things that you might not like, good luck keeping that relationship going in the long run, because over your life together he’s Going to have to say plenty of things that you’ll like even less.

Of course your partner is allowed to say tings you don’t like.
He said I’m loosing my shape and my face is getting fatter. And how he’s left girls before because they put on too much weight. I’m not even fat. This made me really insecure and not confident. He knows I don’t like my body right now too. I dumped him last night.
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Allowed? He's not exactly going to be sent to prison for it.

In all honesty, it really depends. Nobody is going to be happy about it but if he's doing it for your health then it's brutal honesty I guess. His delivery is very important in judging this one.
I’m not even fat. I just snack late at night since I’ve been at his house. He said I’m loosing my shape and my face is getting fatter. And how he’s left girls before because they put on too much weight. I’m not even fat. This made me really insecure and not confident. He knows I don’t like my body right now too. I dumped him last night.
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depends wether its a joke or just banta my gf tells me im putting on weight but i know its just banta
No he sat me down and said I’m getting fat. I told him it could be due to contraception but he said chocolate has nothing to do with contraception. He said I’m loosing my shape and my face is getting fatter. And how he’s left girls before because they put on too much weight. I’m not even fat. This made me really insecure and not confident. He knows I don’t like my body right now too. I dumped him last night.
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Depends what tone he said it in
he sat me down and said I’m getting fat. I told him it could be due to contraception but he said chocolate has nothing to do with contraception. He said I’m loosing my shape and my face is getting fatter. And how he’s left girls before because they put on too much weight. I’m not even fat. This made me really insecure and not confident. He knows I don’t like my body right now too. I dumped him last night as it just escalated and I felt so down about myself especially because I told him before he said that, that I was in a good positive mood.
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i had a gf that said this to me after sex so i dumpped her after after saying you wearn't comlaining till i stopped the best thing is to block him and ignore him espacialy in these ****ed up times
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he knows it would drive me insane so nah, lol
it's not like i'd ever gain weight tho, i have more self control than that
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Yes, especially if they sit on one side of the bed and you go face first into the ceiling.
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I’m not even fat. I just snack late at night since I’ve been at his house. He said I’m loosing my shape and my face is getting fatter. And how he’s left girls before because they put on too much weight. I’m not even fat. This made me really insecure and not confident. He knows I don’t like my body right now too. I dumped him last night.
I can see why you did to be fair. That's quite cruel.

I'm sorry you're going through that, but please know there are people who will appreciate you much more and have a lot more respect.
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i had a gf that said this to me after sex so i dumpped her after after saying you wearn't comlaining till i stopped the best thing is to block him and ignore him espacialy in these ****ed up times
I dumped him. Blocked him everywhere and went home around 4am. What do you mean these ****ed up times? Covid? Honestly we’re in a pandemic a lot of people are loosing themselves and he has the cheek to say this to me. I’m not even fat.
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I can see why you did to be fair. That's quite cruel.

I'm sorry you're going through that, but please know there are people who will appreciate you much more and have a lot more respect.
Thanks. I feel really sad he’s not usually like this he’s a positive person so I was shocked. It did escalate and he left to go to his friends house and I wasn’t happy with that when he came back we argued about him leaving to go to his friends and I just left and blocked him off everywhere.

What do I do if he calls me on another number. I don’t want to leave him but I don’t want to be with someone who says stuff like that!
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