We have been together 3 years, both 21! At the start I was smitten, and was so happy that we were together. However, as time has gone on I’ve began feeling different. Don’t get me wrong, when we are together we can have a good time ( we only see each other once per week ) but when I’m at home I’m always thinking about weather he’s what I want. Thinking about other people ( I know it’s bad !!! I cannot help it)
He wants to get an house with me ect and really sees a future and I feel so guilty because I no longer feel the same way. I’ve tried speaking to him about it and he says that there has to be a reason for how I feel and keeps asking why but I genuinely don’t have a reason fkr feeling how I feel. I just don’t feel into it no more.
I guess I’m not attracted to him physically no more and I don’t know what to do. I do love him but I don’t know if I’m IN love with him. It would hurt to see him with someone else - even the thought makes me feel sick. I’m just so confused by how I’m feeling and I’ve felt like this for months now.
My freind said to me a while ago ‘ could you see yourself marrying him’ I straight away said no - and she replied ‘well why are you with him then? ‘ this spoke volumes.
I don’t know if this is normal to feel like this after being together so long or weather I should just cut it. Like I said it would hurt me so much ending it and I don’t want to be that girl that ends the relationship, regrets it and then tires to come back.
HONEST advice please