Why is girls being Bisexual "hot"

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My boyfriends reaction to me coming out as bisexual was "that's hot" guys please explain?!
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i suppose some guys just see it as an opportunity for a threesome. but it could just be his way of trying to be cool and supportive about it?
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Not hot for everyone. I like straight girls
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Could be linked to the fetishisation of lesbianism, like how some guys thinking two girls getting together is ‘hot’. Also may be linked to the idea that bisexuals are straights who pretend to like girls for male attention.

But it also could not be that deep. Idk your bf so I don’t want to be making assumptions about him. But maybe ask him why he views it as hot especially if it made you uncomfortable.
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My boyfriends reaction to me coming out as bisexual was "that's hot" guys please explain?!
Probably because he's into the idea of you with another woman?
Personally that would make me quite uncomfortable I have to say...
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A lot of guys like female on female action.
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Maybe he didn't really know what to say?
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They think of threesomes (2 girls + them) which for some reason is a big fantasy for lots of men (don't really see the appeal personally, I don't think I could focus on two girls at the same time but it gives men bragging rights).

Also, they might watch lesbian porn and enjoy girl on girl um... action (so they imagine you with another girl).

I think those are the reasons.
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hahah I said the exact same thing when the last girl I was with said she only watched lesbian p*rn :lol:
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Fetishization of sexuality. ew.
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My boyfriends reaction to me coming out as bisexual was "that's hot" guys please explain?!
I think lesbian porn has the most hits online.

I think that's correlated with what you're saying.
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Is he general social awkward?
Maybe he didn't know how to appropriately respond.
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(Original post by Prateek Gupta_)
Not hot for everyone. I like straight girls
What is the difference when it comes to a relationship?
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Is he general social awkward?
Maybe he didn't know how to appropriately respond.
yea he is a bit awkward sometimes but ill ask him
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