I need to find a job myself in uk as well as get some financial help as im currently unemployed. If i leave for the US which i cant right now unless i travel to another country which i find irresponsible and unnecessary. I dont want him to feel bad and think i won't sacrifice as much as he did for the relationship, but i dont want to jeopardise my chances here, I want to be financially stable first, both of us then meet again when we can but he's scared to go back alone to his parents ( they have a big house and a nice life there). I dont know what to do !
Hope it all works out! x