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I’ve never done anything with a girl, most I’ve done was hug. I just turned 17 and I don’t want to be an 18 year old virgin. I’m very confident, some people even say I’m cocky. I’ve been talking with girls my whole life and my confidence has never been a problem, but no girl has ever been interested with me and I’ve never been past the talking stage with them. Or simply just get left on read. I don’t think they see me as romantic material. I never come across as needy or Pervy and none of my friends said I’m bad in terms of looks. But now I’m starting to think my looks are a problem or something is really ****ed up with me that don’t realise. Can anyone who reads this help me with my situation. It would be much appreciated thanks!
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(Original post by edawg04)
I’ve never done anything with a girl, most I’ve done was hug. I just turned 17 and I don’t want to be an 18 year old virgin. I’m very confident, some people even say I’m cocky. I’ve been talking with girls my whole life and my confidence has never been a problem, but no girl has ever been interested with me and I’ve never been past the talking stage with them. Or simply just get left on read. I don’t think they see me as romantic material. I never come across as needy or Pervy and none of my friends said I’m bad in terms of looks. But now I’m starting to think my looks are a problem or something is really ****ed up with me that don’t realise. Can anyone who reads this help me with my situation. It would be much appreciated thanks!
I’ve never done anything with a girl, most I’ve done was hug. I just turned 17 and I don’t want to be an 18 year old virgin. I’m very confident, some people even say I’m cocky. I’ve been talking with girls my whole life and my confidence has never been a problem, but no girl has ever been interested with me and I’ve never been past the talking stage with them. Or simply just get left on read. I don’t think they see me as romantic material. I never come across as needy or Pervy and none of my friends said I’m bad in terms of looks. But now I’m starting to think my looks are a problem or something is really ****ed up with me that don’t realise. Can anyone who reads this help me with my situation. It would be much appreciated thanks!
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(Original post by edawg04)
I’ve never done anything with a girl, most I’ve done was hug. I just turned 17 and I don’t want to be an 18 year old virgin. I’m very confident, some people even say I’m cocky. I’ve been talking with girls my whole life and my confidence has never been a problem, but no girl has ever been interested with me and I’ve never been past the talking stage with them. Or simply just get left on read. I don’t think they see me as romantic material. I never come across as needy or Pervy and none of my friends said I’m bad in terms of looks. But now I’m starting to think my looks are a problem or something is really ****ed up with me that don’t realise. Can anyone who reads this help me with my situation. It would be much appreciated thanks!
I’ve never done anything with a girl, most I’ve done was hug. I just turned 17 and I don’t want to be an 18 year old virgin. I’m very confident, some people even say I’m cocky. I’ve been talking with girls my whole life and my confidence has never been a problem, but no girl has ever been interested with me and I’ve never been past the talking stage with them. Or simply just get left on read. I don’t think they see me as romantic material. I never come across as needy or Pervy and none of my friends said I’m bad in terms of looks. But now I’m starting to think my looks are a problem or something is really ****ed up with me that don’t realise. Can anyone who reads this help me with my situation. It would be much appreciated thanks!
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(Original post by 22749)
May be the type interactions you’ve had and the types of relationships you built. Just wait and it’ll come. Not much else I can say. Just be more confident in trying to get past talking stages, you don’t wanna waste your time on someone who’s there for the laughs.
May be the type interactions you’ve had and the types of relationships you built. Just wait and it’ll come. Not much else I can say. Just be more confident in trying to get past talking stages, you don’t wanna waste your time on someone who’s there for the laughs.
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(Original post by edawg04)
I’ve never done anything with a girl, most I’ve done was hug. I just turned 17 and I don’t want to be an 18 year old virgin. I’m very confident, some people even say I’m cocky. I’ve been talking with girls my whole life and my confidence has never been a problem, but no girl has ever been interested with me and I’ve never been past the talking stage with them. Or simply just get left on read. I don’t think they see me as romantic material. I never come across as needy or Pervy and none of my friends said I’m bad in terms of looks. But now I’m starting to think my looks are a problem or something is really ****ed up with me that don’t realise. Can anyone who reads this help me with my situation. It would be much appreciated thanks!
I’ve never done anything with a girl, most I’ve done was hug. I just turned 17 and I don’t want to be an 18 year old virgin. I’m very confident, some people even say I’m cocky. I’ve been talking with girls my whole life and my confidence has never been a problem, but no girl has ever been interested with me and I’ve never been past the talking stage with them. Or simply just get left on read. I don’t think they see me as romantic material. I never come across as needy or Pervy and none of my friends said I’m bad in terms of looks. But now I’m starting to think my looks are a problem or something is really ****ed up with me that don’t realise. Can anyone who reads this help me with my situation. It would be much appreciated thanks!
Also it's a pandemic if you haven't noticed, so I think it would be perfectly understandable not to have sex right now. Even under normal circumstances, many people lose it in their 20s.
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(Original post by Anonymous018)
I’m sure nothings ****ed with you! Whenever sex happens it happens. I lost my virginity at 14 and I honestly, I regret losing it so young! A lot of my boy mates are amazing people (&lovely looking too) but are still virgins - sometimes that’s just how it is! I can understand it can be frustrating but if you end up going to uni in a few years I’m sure you’ll lose it ASAP! (Ps. If your friends may describe you as cocky, try turning it down a little - cockiness is sexy until it’s too much! Could be a reason why you struggle to get past the talking stage)
I’m sure nothings ****ed with you! Whenever sex happens it happens. I lost my virginity at 14 and I honestly, I regret losing it so young! A lot of my boy mates are amazing people (&lovely looking too) but are still virgins - sometimes that’s just how it is! I can understand it can be frustrating but if you end up going to uni in a few years I’m sure you’ll lose it ASAP! (Ps. If your friends may describe you as cocky, try turning it down a little - cockiness is sexy until it’s too much! Could be a reason why you struggle to get past the talking stage)
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(Original post by ashtolga23)
Perhaps the cockiness is off-putting?
Also it's a pandemic if you haven't noticed, so I think it would be perfectly understandable not to have sex right now. Even under normal circumstances, many people lose it in their 20s.
Perhaps the cockiness is off-putting?
Also it's a pandemic if you haven't noticed, so I think it would be perfectly understandable not to have sex right now. Even under normal circumstances, many people lose it in their 20s.
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(Original post by edawg04)
Yeah hopefully things get better after lockdown. I might be cocky, but I don’t think it’s that overwhelmingly unattractive. Losing it in your 20 is pretty bad tho
Yeah hopefully things get better after lockdown. I might be cocky, but I don’t think it’s that overwhelmingly unattractive. Losing it in your 20 is pretty bad tho
It depends how cocky really. Confidence is attractive, but arrogance is a turn-off generally. There's honestly nothing wrong with losing it in your 20s, and a lot of girls would probably be honoured to be your first in you're looking for a romantic relationship. On that note, if you're just looking for sex then that might also not appeal to people. It's hard to say because I don't have that many details, but there are plenty of reasons it may not have happened yet really. It could even just be that you're not speaking to the right girls.
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(Original post by edawg04)
I’ve never done anything with a girl, most I’ve done was hug. I just turned 17 and I don’t want to be an 18 year old virgin. I’m very confident, some people even say I’m cocky. I’ve been talking with girls my whole life and my confidence has never been a problem, but no girl has ever been interested with me and I’ve never been past the talking stage with them. Or simply just get left on read. I don’t think they see me as romantic material. I never come across as needy or Pervy and none of my friends said I’m bad in terms of looks. But now I’m starting to think my looks are a problem or something is really ****ed up with me that don’t realise. Can anyone who reads this help me with my situation. It would be much appreciated thanks!
I’ve never done anything with a girl, most I’ve done was hug. I just turned 17 and I don’t want to be an 18 year old virgin. I’m very confident, some people even say I’m cocky. I’ve been talking with girls my whole life and my confidence has never been a problem, but no girl has ever been interested with me and I’ve never been past the talking stage with them. Or simply just get left on read. I don’t think they see me as romantic material. I never come across as needy or Pervy and none of my friends said I’m bad in terms of looks. But now I’m starting to think my looks are a problem or something is really ****ed up with me that don’t realise. Can anyone who reads this help me with my situation. It would be much appreciated thanks!
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(Original post by Anonymous)
Honestly, I don’t think there’s anything wrong with being an 18 year old virgin. It sounds sad but, hear me out. Virginity is literally just a social concept. No point in rushing yourself to lose it. I lost my virginity at 14. I don’t regret it but, there’s nothing great about it except bragging rights. I say wait until you finally escape a talking stage and enter a relationship, there’s no rush.
Honestly, I don’t think there’s anything wrong with being an 18 year old virgin. It sounds sad but, hear me out. Virginity is literally just a social concept. No point in rushing yourself to lose it. I lost my virginity at 14. I don’t regret it but, there’s nothing great about it except bragging rights. I say wait until you finally escape a talking stage and enter a relationship, there’s no rush.
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(Original post by ashtolga23)
Yeah, I hope so too.
It depends how cocky really. Confidence is attractive, but arrogance is a turn-off generally. There's honestly nothing wrong with losing it in your 20s, and a lot of girls would probably be honoured to be your first in you're looking for a romantic relationship. On that note, if you're just looking for sex then that might also not appeal to people. It's hard to say because I don't have that many details, but there are plenty of reasons it may not have happened yet really. It could even just be that you're not speaking to the right girls.
Yeah, I hope so too.
It depends how cocky really. Confidence is attractive, but arrogance is a turn-off generally. There's honestly nothing wrong with losing it in your 20s, and a lot of girls would probably be honoured to be your first in you're looking for a romantic relationship. On that note, if you're just looking for sex then that might also not appeal to people. It's hard to say because I don't have that many details, but there are plenty of reasons it may not have happened yet really. It could even just be that you're not speaking to the right girls.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
How do I escape the talking stage my friend, I have not been really talked to many girls. And the ones that I have talked to were never interested in me, all my hopes are starting to fade because of this, I don’t want to waste my time chasing girls as there’s no positive outcome
only denial
How do I escape the talking stage my friend, I have not been really talked to many girls. And the ones that I have talked to were never interested in me, all my hopes are starting to fade because of this, I don’t want to waste my time chasing girls as there’s no positive outcome
only denial
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(Original post by edawg04)
Tbf I will take anything at this point.
Tbf I will take anything at this point.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
How long are your talking stages usually?
How long are your talking stages usually?
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I think you should focus on yourself and just be you and let it happen when it happens. I'm also the same age as you but I'm girl (which I'm sure you can tell) so Ik how you feel
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(Original post by KAy1a.2021)
just be yourself
just be yourself
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if you have an ego the size of texas, then you can't be helped. if you're that desperate, go to tinder or any other dating app. my problem couldn't be anymore similar, yet so different. anywayy, maybe you just aren't destined to move to the next stage in high school. wait until you get to college lol.
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(Original post by ifreakingloveme)
if you have an ego the size of texas, then you can't be helped. if you're that desperate, go to tinder or any other dating app. my problem couldn't be anymore similar, yet so different. i'm attractive enough to get asked out a gazillion times, but my commitment issue just makes everything weird bc i can't seem to say anything other than no smh. i literally freaked out and ran away when i was abt to have my first kiss. anywayyy, maybe you just aren't destined to move to the next stage in high school. wait until you get to college lol.
if you have an ego the size of texas, then you can't be helped. if you're that desperate, go to tinder or any other dating app. my problem couldn't be anymore similar, yet so different. i'm attractive enough to get asked out a gazillion times, but my commitment issue just makes everything weird bc i can't seem to say anything other than no smh. i literally freaked out and ran away when i was abt to have my first kiss. anywayyy, maybe you just aren't destined to move to the next stage in high school. wait until you get to college lol.
My ego isn’t massive, I’m very open minded, as why I am asking for help on this webpage. I’m starting to realise that I might come across as arrogant when I’m just overconfident!
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(Original post by edawg04)
I’ve never done anything with a girl, most I’ve done was hug. I just turned 17 and I don’t want to be an 18 year old virgin. I’m very confident, some people even say I’m cocky. I’ve been talking with girls my whole life and my confidence has never been a problem, but no girl has ever been interested with me and I’ve never been past the talking stage with them. Or simply just get left on read. I don’t think they see me as romantic material. I never come across as needy or Pervy and none of my friends said I’m bad in terms of looks. But now I’m starting to think my looks are a problem or something is really ****ed up with me that don’t realise. Can anyone who reads this help me with my situation. It would be much appreciated thanks!
I’ve never done anything with a girl, most I’ve done was hug. I just turned 17 and I don’t want to be an 18 year old virgin. I’m very confident, some people even say I’m cocky. I’ve been talking with girls my whole life and my confidence has never been a problem, but no girl has ever been interested with me and I’ve never been past the talking stage with them. Or simply just get left on read. I don’t think they see me as romantic material. I never come across as needy or Pervy and none of my friends said I’m bad in terms of looks. But now I’m starting to think my looks are a problem or something is really ****ed up with me that don’t realise. Can anyone who reads this help me with my situation. It would be much appreciated thanks!
Nothing wrong with being a virgin btw
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