It keeps happening and I can hear them in my room from the kitchen I can hear them shouting at each other and it's upsetting me now. A few weeks ago it got that bad my mum refused to let my dad in the house so he had to*drive*somewhere, I don’t know where he went but he wasn't home for a few days and when he came home he said next time she kicks him out like that he's going to move out into these new flats being built he buy one and move there. I am a bit worried about that happening and I just want these arguments to stop because they are really upsetting me. I don't know what to do. I just don’t want this arguing to lead to my dad moving out because that would destroy the family.
Have a look at this link-they seem to have an online chat facility and will have expertise in supporting you
I'm sorry, you are perfectly entitled to your opinion but this is my last post on this thread. Any form of DV in front of children will cause them harm, in any country
Nonetheless, they do offer advice to children who are experiencing this type of upset and so that's a good call.
I have been trained in Safeguarding for children at the college where I work and for a charity where I volunteer to support the vulnerable. Parents shouting at each other is not an example of behaviour where I would have to flag the child up for being at the risk of abuse, neglect or harm.
The original poster has not given any information that flags up a pattern of coercive and controlling behaviour between the parents, though granted on one occasion, the father was made to leave the house. This doesn't meet the current UK definition of DV, domestic violence
The child that is distressed by their parents relationship problems can contact ChildLine if they are young enough, get emotional support from the Samaritans at any age.
They could talk to a friend, relative or Teacher/Lecturer, approach the support services at their school, college or Uni.
I'm not sure how old you are.
From what I've read I'm not sure what mum or dad has done and possibly you
do not know either.
You have grandparents, uncle/aunts, family that you can trust and if so, speak with them but
tell your parents first if you feeli its safe to do so.
If you feel you are at immediate risk, 999 is the number to ring.