Why do guys give slow replies

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I’ve been talking to this guy on hinge for a bit and at first his replies were quite quick but now he’s been giving slow replies and he would apologise every time he replied saying sorry for the late reply, then after a couple of days he asks for my snap since he's rarely on the app, I give it too him and didn’t hear from for the day then I see hes been posting on insta (we followed each other on there beforehand) so I dm him one of vid, giving him a compliment and his replies were quick but for the past two days his replies having been so slow, didnt hear from him for a whole day till I messaged him,
Why ask for my socials sayings he rarely goes on hinge just to give slow replies
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maybe he's busy doing something else or lack of interest
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I usually wait about 1 month to reply back to messages - mainly because I just forget about it and can't be bothered. Not really a big fan of social media either.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
I’ve been talking to this guy on hinge for a bit and at first his replies were quite quick but now he’s been giving slow replies and he would apologise every time he replied saying sorry for the late reply, then after a couple of days he asks for my snap since he's rarely on the app, I give it too him and didn’t hear from for the day then I see hes been posting on insta (we followed each other on there beforehand) so I dm him one of vid, giving him a compliment and his replies were quick but for the past two days his replies having been so slow, didnt hear from him for a whole day till I messaged him,
Why ask for my socials sayings he rarely goes on hinge just to give slow replies
well because believe it or not we have other things to do also it depends on ur definition of slow cuz 1-2 hours aint rlly slow
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Lack of interest you're not really a high priority at the moment there's just no excuse considering that we are in the pandemic.
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I find that I have a different definition of slow when it comes to women. I was actually surprised the first time a girl told me that I give slow replies. I always replied within 36 hours.
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I find that I have a different definition of slow when it comes to women. I was actually surprised the first time a girl told me that I give slow replies. I always replied within 36 hours.
Lol same - sometimes I think they just sit with their phones in hand all day expecting a response the instant they send one. Ain't got time for that.
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(Original post by Gaddafi)
I find that I have a different definition of slow when it comes to women. I was actually surprised the first time a girl told me that I give slow replies. I always replied within 36 hours.
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Lol same - sometimes I think they just sit with their phones in hand all day expecting a response the instant they send one. Ain't got time for that.
Lmao you both must have a lot on your plate to be that busy :rofl:
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Lmao you both must have a lot on your plate to be that busy :rofl:
Or maybe you don't have enough on your plate?
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Lmao you both must have a lot on your plate to be that busy :rofl:
My replies vary between 1 hour to 1 month - usually always reply on the weekends. Depends on the message really and how important it is. I work full-time during weekdays.
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Or maybe you don't have enough on your plate?
Oh trust me mate, I do have a lot on my plate but I still find time to respond :huff:
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My replies vary between 1 hour to 1 month - usually always reply on the weekends. Depends on the message really and how important it is. I work full-time during weekdays.
Damn 1 month, that's loooooooong but yeah I see why you give slow replies :yep:
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My replies vary between 1 hour to 1 month - usually always reply on the weekends. Depends on the message really and how important it is. I work full-time during weekdays.
Igy. I typically reply within 2-7 days depending upon who/what it is. I one took a full year to reply to someone though :lol:
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Oh trust me mate, I do have a lot on my plate but I still find time to respond :huff:
smh, I always respond (eventually lool)
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It has nothing to do with sex, both sexes do this. Find someone who makes you happy.
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smh, I always respond (eventually lool)
Yeah after like 5 years innit
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not just guys, i'm guilty of it too :pinch:
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Delayed replies, from girls or guys, are pretty much a clear and universal sign of low interest. Sure there may be a bit of game playing but if you’re keen you’ll not delay too long
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