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He tends to faint when encountering gory things e.g.watching a video about what happens when someone dies (this happened in his class). He won't go down on me because he's worried about fainting.

I don't want to push him any further about doing it, but not going down on me is kind of a dealbreaker. I love everything else about him and can't let him go...

We've already discussed on what to do if he faints just in general.

Anyone have any advice on what to do?
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abt 2-4 times a day for like a week show him gorey things and he might get used to it
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Honestly I would say you guys actually try it but make sure you go into it slowly and show that you are supporting and are constantly reassuring him
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Just as extra information, I have gone down on him a few times before and they went well. I pretty much only do it because I know it pleases him and he likes it. However his situation on going down on me is entirely different. We've decided that I won't go down on him if he won't go down on me which he's fine with.
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(Original post by Bobchain97)
Honestly I would say you guys actually try it but make sure you go into it slowly and show that you are supporting and are constantly reassuring him
I considered doing that, but once he gets 'down there', he shuts off completely and won't lick once so we change to cuddling or smt. I can't force him to do it or I feel guilty. Do you think this situation would be worth breaking up over?
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I’m a bit confused how watching a video about someone dying correlates to going down on your partner tbh...

Are you male or female OP?
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abt 2-4 times a day for like a week show him gorey things and he might get used to it
Sounds like a plan. However he's fine with gore in movies and stuff, it's just more realistic things that makes him shut down
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Ask him if you can give him a handjob, that might be a good start.
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(Original post by GabiAbi84)
I’m a bit confused how watching a video about someone dying correlates to going down on your partner tbh...

Are you male or femal OP?
Sorry my explanation wasn't clear. I'm female. My bf faints at things like videos about someone dying aka he gets squeamish, so he's worried he'll faint if he goes down on me.
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Sounds like a plan. However he's fine with gore in movies and stuff, it's just more realistic things that makes him shut down
oh so idk what u could do
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(Original post by 2003a39)
Ask him if you can give him a handjob, that might be a good start.
Tbh I prefer using my mouth than hand on him. He's fine with using his hands on me, but it's just that I think I'll actually be able to orgasm if his tongue is involved, you get me?
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Sorry my explanation wasn't clear. I'm female. My bf faints at things like videos about someone dying aka he gets squeamish, so he's worried he'll faint if he goes down on me.
dose he havea weak stomach
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Sorry my explanation wasn't clear. I'm female. My bf faints at things like videos about someone dying aka he gets squeamish, so he's worried he'll faint if he goes down on me.
So he’s squeamish about going down on you?
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I don't understand how he's equated gore with going down on you... :dontknow:
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(Original post by GabiAbi84)
So he’s squeamish about going down on you?
Yep, he's been telling me he'd do it for months but whenever he gets an opportunity he seems to get nervous, bless him . I told him that he can get accustomed by giving it one lick and leaving it but he refuses.
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I don't understand how he's equated gore with going down on you... :dontknow:
Thank you!
I thought I was the only one confused about why they were related.
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I don't understand how he's equated gore with going down on you... :dontknow:
I think it's more realistic than things like murder in movies?? I'm not fully sure either...
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Tbh I prefer using my mouth than hand on him. He's fine with using his hands on me, but it's just that I think I'll actually be able to orgasm if his tongue is involved, you get me?
Assuming he can do the ejac- you know when you blow him..., I don't understand why he thinks he'd faint during the deed.
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Yep, he's been telling me he'd do it for months but whenever he gets an opportunity he seems to get nervous, bless him . I told him that he can get accustomed by giving it one lick and leaving it but he refuses.
Then that’s his choice.
You can’t force him to do something he obviously doesn’t want to do-nor should you.
Continuing to force the issue is a major no-no.

Up to you whether it’s a dealbreaker or not.
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Yep, he's been telling me he'd do it for months but whenever he gets an opportunity he seems to get nervous, bless him . I told him that he can get accustomed by giving it one lick and leaving it but he refuses.
Yeah, it's clear that this is something that grosses him out. Not everyone enjoys doing it. You both are probably just sexually incompatible. I really don't see how you could convince him to do it. If he said no multiple times then I guess you both need to just move on from it
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