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He tends to faint when encountering gory things e.g.watching a video about what happens when someone dies (this happened in his class). He won't go down on me because he's worried about fainting.
I don't want to push him any further about doing it, but not going down on me is kind of a dealbreaker. I love everything else about him and can't let him go...
We've already discussed on what to do if he faints just in general.
Anyone have any advice on what to do?
I don't want to push him any further about doing it, but not going down on me is kind of a dealbreaker. I love everything else about him and can't let him go...
We've already discussed on what to do if he faints just in general.
Anyone have any advice on what to do?
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abt 2-4 times a day for like a week show him gorey things and he might get used to it
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Honestly I would say you guys actually try it but make sure you go into it slowly and show that you are supporting and are constantly reassuring him
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Just as extra information, I have gone down on him a few times before and they went well. I pretty much only do it because I know it pleases him and he likes it. However his situation on going down on me is entirely different. We've decided that I won't go down on him if he won't go down on me which he's fine with.
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(Original post by Bobchain97)
Honestly I would say you guys actually try it but make sure you go into it slowly and show that you are supporting and are constantly reassuring him
Honestly I would say you guys actually try it but make sure you go into it slowly and show that you are supporting and are constantly reassuring him
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I’m a bit confused how watching a video about someone dying correlates to going down on your partner tbh...
Are you male or female OP?
Are you male or female OP?
Last edited by GabiAbi84; 4 weeks ago
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(Original post by Anonymous)
abt 2-4 times a day for like a week show him gorey things and he might get used to it
abt 2-4 times a day for like a week show him gorey things and he might get used to it
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(Original post by GabiAbi84)
I’m a bit confused how watching a video about someone dying correlates to going down on your partner tbh...
Are you male or femal OP?
I’m a bit confused how watching a video about someone dying correlates to going down on your partner tbh...
Are you male or femal OP?
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(Original post by Anonymous)
Sounds like a plan. However he's fine with gore in movies and stuff, it's just more realistic things that makes him shut down
Sounds like a plan. However he's fine with gore in movies and stuff, it's just more realistic things that makes him shut down
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(Original post by 2003a39)
Ask him if you can give him a handjob, that might be a good start.
Ask him if you can give him a handjob, that might be a good start.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
Sorry my explanation wasn't clear. I'm female. My bf faints at things like videos about someone dying aka he gets squeamish, so he's worried he'll faint if he goes down on me.
Sorry my explanation wasn't clear. I'm female. My bf faints at things like videos about someone dying aka he gets squeamish, so he's worried he'll faint if he goes down on me.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
Sorry my explanation wasn't clear. I'm female. My bf faints at things like videos about someone dying aka he gets squeamish, so he's worried he'll faint if he goes down on me.
Sorry my explanation wasn't clear. I'm female. My bf faints at things like videos about someone dying aka he gets squeamish, so he's worried he'll faint if he goes down on me.
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(Original post by GabiAbi84)
So he’s squeamish about going down on you?
So he’s squeamish about going down on you?
. I told him that he can get accustomed by giving it one lick and leaving it but he refuses.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
Tbh I prefer using my mouth than hand on him. He's fine with using his hands on me, but it's just that I think I'll actually be able to orgasm if his tongue is involved, you get me?
Tbh I prefer using my mouth than hand on him. He's fine with using his hands on me, but it's just that I think I'll actually be able to orgasm if his tongue is involved, you get me?
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(Original post by Anonymous)
Yep, he's been telling me he'd do it for months but whenever he gets an opportunity he seems to get nervous, bless him
. I told him that he can get accustomed by giving it one lick and leaving it but he refuses.
Yep, he's been telling me he'd do it for months but whenever he gets an opportunity he seems to get nervous, bless him
. I told him that he can get accustomed by giving it one lick and leaving it but he refuses.
You can’t force him to do something he obviously doesn’t want to do-nor should you.
Continuing to force the issue is a major no-no.
Up to you whether it’s a dealbreaker or not.
Last edited by GabiAbi84; 4 weeks ago
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(Original post by Anonymous)
Yep, he's been telling me he'd do it for months but whenever he gets an opportunity he seems to get nervous, bless him. I told him that he can get accustomed by giving it one lick and leaving it but he refuses.
Yep, he's been telling me he'd do it for months but whenever he gets an opportunity he seems to get nervous, bless him
. I told him that he can get accustomed by giving it one lick and leaving it but he refuses.
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