is it weird to ask a friend for a cuddle

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not in a relationship but sometimes i just want a cuddle. My best friend is a guy ( who is single too but I know he doesn't want a relationship ) would it be weird to ask him, do you have to be in a relationship to cuddle
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not in a relationship but sometimes i just want a cuddle. My best friend is a guy ( who is single too but I know he doesn't want a relationship ) would it be weird to ask him, do you have to be in a relationship to cuddle
I'm a hugger so if someone asks I'll probably say yes regardless (well, as long as I like them as a person). I wouldn't say so.
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Depends on the relationship.
I've slept in the same bed as close friends and asked for hugs, yeah. You might want to be clear that you're not looking for a relationship though.
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What if he catches feelings
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You don't have to be but it depends on the friendship you have with this guy. If you think they might like you, don't ask for stuff like that, it's not fair to the other person and you can always ask your girl friends for hugs.
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I have feelings for him but he shows zero signs he does

i know he said before he wants to focus on studies

long ago before lockdown i said lets go see lights and he said sure but not X because my friends said thats where couples go / there are many occasions us alone and he never makes a move but just talks casually / sleep overs we sleep in seperate beds and movies we are distanced as we watch it and when i try to move a bit closer i can sense he keeps a slight distance ... so yea i dont think i need to tell him because all the signs show he has no interest
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not in a relationship but sometimes i just want a cuddle. My best friend is a guy ( who is single too but I know he doesn't want a relationship ) would it be weird to ask him, do you have to be in a relationship to cuddle
nope ive done it
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that doesn't sound weird
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I can understand wanting hugs / cuddles etc. but you need to make it very clear it's nothing beyond that - the last thing you wanna do is lead the other person on.
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Cuddling is more emotional than sexual, unlike kissing, so it will be fine if you’re both on the same page
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