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A guy messaged me. However my boyfriend saw that I deleted the DM but I shown him the conversation as it was screen shotted by the guy as I told him to screenshot it and nothing flirty was involved. Just friendly. Could he break up over this?
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if he (bf) deels threatend then maybe
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(Original post by Khadija999)
A guy messaged me. However my boyfriend saw that I deleted the DM but I shown him the conversation as it was screen shotted by the guy as I told him to screenshot it and nothing flirty was involved. Just friendly. Could he break up over this?
A relationship needs trust! You should be absolutely fine! You were opened and honest to him! If he is making you feel bad about telling him the truth then you need to think is this the person you want time with in the long run!
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Why did you delete the message in the first place?
How did your BF see that you had been messaged?

If he wants to break up then he can do what he likes but doesn’t seem much to it unless there is more tot his story...
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Why did you delete the message in the first place?
How did your BF see that you had been messaged?

If he wants to break up then he can do what he likes but doesn’t seem much to it unless there is more tot his story...
I deleted it because the guy called me cute. It’s my way of ending a conversation. We have a joint account so that’s how he seen it but I shown him proof of the convo that nothing flirty was going on. Evidently it’s shown that I was vague in the convo
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if he (bf) deels threatend then maybe
Even despite the screenshot?
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Even despite the screenshot?
some guys are like that
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(Original post by Khadija999)
A guy messaged me. However my boyfriend saw that I deleted the DM but I shown him the conversation as it was screen shotted by the guy as I told him to screenshot it and nothing flirty was involved. Just friendly. Could he break up over this?
Depends, if his ego is really fragile and he’s immature then yeah.

Wait, you have a joint account? Seriously?
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(Original post by Khadija999)
I deleted it because the guy called me cute. It’s my way of ending a conversation. We have a joint account so that’s how he seen it but I shown him proof of the convo that nothing flirty was going on. Evidently it’s shown that I was vague in the convo
Deleting a message looks more like you’re trying to hide something tbh and then scrambling for an excuse when your Bf noticed. (Not saying you were, just how it looks)
A better response would be “thanks but I feel that’s a bit inappropriate for you to say tbh and I’d appreciate you not” or something similar.
Also, as long as you’re not leading him on/ being flirty back then you’re doing nothing wrong.
What did your boyfriend say?
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(Original post by GabiAbi84)
Deleting a message looks more like you’re trying to hide something tbh and then scrambling for an excuse when your Bf noticed. (Not saying you were, just how it looks)
A better response would be “thanks but I feel that’s a bit inappropriate for you to say tbh and I’d appreciate you not” or something similar.
Also, as long as you’re not leading him on/ being flirty back then you’re doing nothing wrong.
What did your boyfriend say?
Definitely didn’t flirt. I was vague. All I said was good luck to the guy that messaged. My boyfriend just asked who’s he. What’s the reason you deleted the messages. And then said “hm” before going to sleep. That’s when I explained myself. Currently waiting for his reply
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Definitely didn’t flirt. I was vague. All I said was good luck to the guy that messaged. My boyfriend just asked who’s he. What’s the reason you deleted the messages. And then said “hm” before going to sleep. That’s when I explained myself. Currently waiting for his reply
Vague about what?
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Vague about what?
Me replying to the guy that messaged. I didn’t say anything more than two words
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