How do I tell a guy friend that I like them, and if they might like me back?

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Me, being a guy myself, would pass out if a girl friend I like asks me out. You can tell he likes you if he pays more attention to you than his other girl friends. Also, just to make it easier convince yourself that your too good for him, and then if he rejects you know you deserve better, and if your attractive then there will be a guy who likes you but is too shy to tell you.

Me, being a guy myself, would pass out if a girl friend I like asks me out. You can tell he likes you if he pays more attention to you than his other girl friends. Also, just to make it easier convince yourself that your too good for him, and then if he rejects you know you deserve better, and if your attractive then there will be a guy who likes you but is too shy to tell you.

Some really good advice... also maybe don’t do it just yet though cause I’ve had a situation where guys have done the same thing with me but it was just them playing around so best thing to do is drop hints and never let your guard down because if a guy truly likes you he WILL put in the effort

Okay, context: He and I have been friends for about a year. I've had feelings for him for about 6 months. We both go to the same college and we text regularly.

I met up with him and three other guys at a pub and I bought him a drink, he wanted to buy me my first energy drink to repay me, but one of his mates bought it for me instead(they both kept trying to buy me it). He then insisted on buying me a doughnut to pay me back instead. Should I take that as a hint? And how do I tell him that I have feelings for him?

Ahaha, that's actually a good way to look at it. This has actually helped with my nerves, so thank you

Some really good advice... also maybe don’t do it just yet though cause I’ve had a situation where guys have done the same thing with me but it was just them playing around so best thing to do is drop hints and never let your guard down because if a guy truly likes you he WILL put in the effort

No problem I love to help out with these things. If only someone could help me...

Sorry but don’t make the first move. Backwards to say but men are hunters and would say if they fancied you and would make it obvious. Dont disgrace yourself and look back cringing for the next 10 yrs. what you need to do for a bit of a catalyst is get more hotter, more unattainable and more flirty (not cringy) or at least act that around him. If he doesn’t bite then he doesnt like you. Dont friendzone yourself. Just because he is a boy that you speak to doesn’t mean you need to fancy him aswell but if you want things happening you should take the above action. Relationships and the dating game are for people who can hack it so if your sensitive stay out and protect your heart! So sorry if this is coming off a bit harsh but i learnt the hard way and wish someone woke me up a long time ago! Also, he would be offering you dinner not a doughnut if he fancied you! My point is work on you and your self worth first and get to the point where you dont need to worry about if a man likes you or not because if he likes you, you would know without question. Level up empower yourself lets go!

I get that, don't worry. Also I've explored the territory of being rejected so I'd probably be able to handle it okay. I try to make sure to drop hints, i.e checking up on him regularly and talking to him. I'm not sure what else I can do to drop hints, since I get embarrassed really easily.

Sorry but don’t make the first move. Backwards to say but men are hunters and would say if they fancied you and would make it obvious. Dont disgrace yourself and look back cringing for the next 10 yrs. what you need to do for a bit of a catalyst is get more hotter, more unattainable and more flirty (not cringy) or at least act that around him. If he doesn’t bite then he doesnt like you. Dont friendzone yourself. Just because he is a boy that you speak to doesn’t mean you need to fancy him aswell but if you want things happening you should take the above action. Relationships and the dating game are for people who can hack it so if your sensitive stay out and protect your heart! So sorry if this is coming off a bit harsh but i learnt the hard way and wish someone woke me up a long time ago! Also, he would be offering you dinner not a doughnut if he fancied you! My point is work on you and your self worth first and get to the point where you dont need to worry about if a man likes you or not because if he likes you, you would know without question. Level up empower yourself lets go!

Your advice is harsh but so true, so many girls out there making the mistake thinking they need to nudge the guy. Men will pounce on you with their eyes if they want you, there's no mistaking it

Show cleavage and make sure he sees it. It's girly superpower