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bisexuality

am i bisexual or lesbian? i would NEVER have sex with a man but i would kiss one and would date one , i would have sex with a female and i only ever watch lesbian porn and i would kiss a woman and probably date one, i also find women attractive what am i? i know people say not to put labels but i would like to have one please help me
Original post by Anonymous
am i bisexual or lesbian? i would NEVER have sex with a man but i would kiss one and would date one , i would have sex with a female and i only ever watch lesbian porn and i would kiss a woman and probably date one, i also find women attractive what am i? i know people say not to put labels but i would like to have one please help me

have you read the lesbian masterdoc? it helped me a lot when i was questioning my sexuality
Original post by Anonymous
am i bisexual or lesbian? i would NEVER have sex with a man but i would kiss one and would date one , i would have sex with a female and i only ever watch lesbian porn and i would kiss a woman and probably date one, i also find women attractive what am i? i know people say not to put labels but i would like to have one please help me


Okay...i get what you mean...my question to you is do you see yourself having a long term relationship with a woman? If it’s yes then your a lesbian
Reply 3
Biromantic?
Reply 4
Original post by Anonymous
have you read the lesbian masterdoc? it helped me a lot when i was questioning my sexuality

omg that helped me a lot thankyou so much☺️but also is it normal to still find guys attractive? like i’m not sure if i’m just bi but i would NEVER have sex with a guy but i find them attractive so i’m not sure
Reply 5
Original post by LovelyMrFox
Biromantic?

what’s that??
I think you're a troll, but there is nothing wrong with being gay or straight, you are who you are.
Original post by Bright Sky
I think you're a troll, but there is nothing wrong with being gay or straight, you are who you are.

Why'd dyu think she's a troll?
Reply 8
Original post by Bright Sky
I think you're a troll, but there is nothing wrong with hbeing gay or straight, you are who you are.

i find it extremely rude u are calling me a troll - i am seriously struggling with my sexual identity and am not a troll or homophobic thanks for being unhelpful
Reply 9
Original post by Wannabevetnurse
Why'd dyu think she's a troll?

exactly i’m struggling with my sexuality i’m being serious this isn’t a joke and i’m not a troll!
Original post by Anonymous
i find it extremely rude u are calling me a troll - i am seriously struggling with my sexual identity and am not a troll or homophobic thanks for being unhelpful

Sorry, but it was the way you composed the thread. Something about it didn't ring true, such as when you said you wouldn't touch a man, but think you are bisexual?
Original post by Anonymous
Okay...i get what you mean...my question to you is do you see yourself having a long term relationship with a woman? If it’s yes then your a lesbian

i have only just kind of started having these thoughts recently so i’m not sure but i do find women attractive and would have relationships but not sure about marriage yet - am i just bi then?
Original post by Bright Sky
Sorry, but it was the way you composed the thread. Something about it didn't ring true, such as when you said you wouldn't touch a man, but think you are bisexual

i’m sorry i’m just struggling with my identity these are my feelings and i’m sorry if you have a problem with it - i turned to here as i thought other people may feel the same - yes i said then and yes i would date a man that’s why i’m here as i am confused
Original post by Anonymous
i’m sorry i’m just struggling with my identity these are my feelings and i’m sorry if you have a problem with it - i turned to here as i thought other people may feel the same - yes i said then and yes i would date a man that’s why i’m here as i am confused

No offence was intended, I hope you get the answers your are seeking. Good luck with discovering who you are.
Reply 14
Original post by Anonymous
what’s that??

Romantically attracted to both genders, however does not define who you are sexually attracted to.

Dont put pressure on yourself to conform to a label, they can be constricting and sometimes do more hurt than help. If you want one though, thats perfectly fine too.
Original post by Bright Sky
Sorry, but it was the way you composed the thread. Something about it didn't ring true, such as when you said you wouldn't touch a man, but think you are bisexual?

the whole point of me making this post is to ask some people that are part of LGBTQ stop acting like i am not valid or my feelings aren’t valid - i’m confused and i wanted other people to help me with my feelings so don’t call me a troll or say i’m lying? i’m simply a person struggling with her identity and you should accept that
Original post by Bright Sky
No offence was intended, I hope you get the answers your are seeking. Good luck with discovering who you are.

sorry about my other reply i wrote it before you replied but thankyou it means a lot ☺️☺️
Original post by Anonymous
sorry about my other reply i wrote it before you replied but thankyou it means a lot ☺️☺️

No problem, I am not against the LGBT community and would never wish to identify as a homophobe. As I said there was something about what you wrote that convinced me who were a troll, many who use anon actually are, but on this occasion, I was wrong.
As others said you might be sexually gay but bi-romantic. However I wouldn't get a headache over it. Sex is an important (fundamental) part of any relationship. You may always find an asexual boy... But otherwise you'd be condemning someone to a permanent situation of sexual frustration and ultimately unhappiness. If you have no sexual attraction to guys, then find yourself a beautiful and caring girl. There's plenty out there and you'll be happy, whatever precise label you may find over the internet.
you could be biromantic= a homosexual person romantically attracted to people of multiple genders, but is only sexually attracted to women.

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