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Hello

Well I'll most likely be going on a date with a guy that I really like on wednesday and I've never been on a date before and I've never kissed a guy before. He's a couple years older than i am so I'm guess hes had some experience so I don't want to seem rubbish if he does try to kiss me.

Any tips?

Reply 1

MrColin

1

NicolePickle

Hello

Well I'll most likely be going on a date with a guy that I really like on wednesday and I've never been on a date before and I've never kissed a guy before. He's a couple years older than i am so I'm guess hes had some experience so I don't want to seem rubbish if he does try to kiss me.

Any tips?

Stick your toungue down his throat and you will be fine!

Reply 2

Tinty

Probably be pecking but if he goes further let him lead and just go with the flow.
Remember don't do anything you're uncomfortable with.

Reply 3

sweetcheeks01

8

Just make sure you open your mouth, even if he doesn't. :smile:

Reply 4

Dr_Zeus

definitly dont stick you tongue down his throat!! nothing worse than i washing machine

Follow him, if he kisses with alot of tongue do that if he doesnt dont :smile:

And most importantly dont worry!

Reply 5

C_B_C

15

Oh, lol, I felt exactly the same a couple of years ago when I went on MY first date... but I guess it's easier for guys.

It's REALLY REALLY easy. Just open your mouth (a LITTLE BIT! don't go trying to swallow his face), and close it...
Don't try to use your toung... he'll give that first step (or not).
Don't bite... I hate it when girls bite me when I try to kiss them... I don't mean 'bite' as in a defensive sort of way (which I have ALSO experianced a few times ^^).

JUST GO FOR IT! :biggrin:

Reply 6

emilina

17

go with the flow OP, follow his lead.

otherwise you will seriously be sitting there. all romantic, watching him coming closer, closing your eyes (imagine a hollywood chick flick right now) and you will feel his lips on yours. . . . and think. . . ****, am i meant to have my mouth open?!?!?!?!? :eek:

Reply 7

rachxl

11

don't open your eyes
make sure breath smells good

the rest comes pretty naturally... let him show you how. That doesn't mean ask for instructions- Just follow his lead and it'll all go fine. :smile:

have fun on your date!

Reply 8

Dionysus

15

NicolePickle

Hello

Well I'll most likely be going on a date with a guy that I really like on wednesday and I've never been on a date before and I've never kissed a guy before. He's a couple years older than i am so I'm guess hes had some experience so I don't want to seem rubbish if he does try to kiss me.

Any tips?

*patronising 'awww that's cute' or similar*

It's just completely natural. Don't overdo it on the whole tongues thing. You don't want to suffocate each other!

Reply 9

WelshBluebird

16

C_B_C

Don't bite... I hate it when girls bite me when I try to kiss them...

You see, I like a bit of biting. Nibbling on my lips and tongue etc. I'm a little odd when it comes to things like this though, so that may explain it lol.

As corny and as overused as the phrase is; "just go with the flow". i hadn't properly snogged anyone till about a month ago. It did help that she was a very good kisser, and led the way a bit. But still, don't overthink it.

Reply 10

miki_da_magpie

2

Hm Im a fan of biting, but for some its not great, so i wouldnt do it on a first date. Dont open ur eyes, fresh breath, better no tongue then too much tongue, and dont only go one way :smile:

Reply 11

NicolePickle

OP

should i tell him that ive never snogged before?

and another problem is, is that i just don't know what to do with my tongue :P

Reply 12

Colesy

NicolePickle

should i tell him that ive never snogged before?

and another problem is, is that i just don't know what to do with my tongue :P

Hell to the no.

Lol it's just so natural, just go with his flow as said and chill.

There's really nothingto it :smile:

Reply 13

Bear_Grylls

19

Dont stick your toungue in his mouth and go mad, thats the worse thing you can do. little kisses beforehand then do what feels natural

Reply 14

Oddball

11

WelshBluebird

You see, I like a bit of biting. Nibbling on my lips and tongue etc. I'm a little odd when it comes to things like this though, so that may explain it lol.

Affectionate biting FTW.

Reply 15

NicolePickle

OP

thanks everyone, the advice has made me feel abit more relaxed :biggrin:

Reply 16

Anonymous #1

It's just natural. Had my first snog the other day and it was pretty simple. Don't think about it. When it happens, it happens and it seems to work itself.