Never been in a relationship at 16. Is this weird?

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I’m 15 and I’m hecka shy I haven’t been in a real relationship with a dude yet do to being shy and not being attractive or ever approached. But I do think I’d be a good girlfriend honestly, they missing out 🤷*♀️
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I’m 15 and I’m hecka shy I haven’t been in a real relationship with a dude yet do to being shy and not being attractive or ever approached. But I do think I’d be a good girlfriend honestly, they missing out 🤷*♀️
mood honestly, I’m the same girl don’t worry about it they are just missing the best ones out poor boys
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mood honestly, I’m the same girl don’t worry about it they are just missing the best ones out poor boys
Hehe thanks (:
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I’m 15 and I’m hecka shy I haven’t been in a real relationship with a dude yet do to being shy and not being attractive or ever approached. But I do think I’d be a good girlfriend honestly, they missing out 🤷*♀️
Damnnn when I was 15 I was more concerned about my essays and science work than whether or not a boy approached me. You're 15 man go enjoy life don't sit around waiting for guy
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Damnnn when I was 15 I was more concerned about my essays and science work than whether or not a boy approached me. You're 15 man go enjoy life don't sit around waiting for guy
Haha I’m not waiting for dudes. I’m just stating it’s perfectly okay 👌. I’m more interested in my school work too (:
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My dad always said to me that the sweetest fruit always grows at the top of the trees, and don't sell yourself short for men who aren't going to work hard to get you.

16 is nothing. Don't give in to peer pressure. There's so much that's going to be happening in your life over the next few years that you don't need the boy drama anyway.
And there's nothing wrong with you. At all.
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22 and never had a relationship here so I wouldn't worry most of my friends from school also hadn't had a relationship at that age
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My dad always said to me that the sweetest fruit always grows at the top of the trees, and don't sell yourself short for men who aren't going to work hard to get you.

16 is nothing. Don't give in to peer pressure. There's so much that's going to be happening in your life over the next few years that you don't need the boy drama anyway.
And there's nothing wrong with you. At all.
What a great saying from your dad, that is really sweet, thank you for sharing. Yeah these replies have honestly helped me a lot, I think I’m just being influenced by my surroundings, most of my friends have body counts of atleast 1 and many relationships and I think I just felt abit left out. I will try my best to just do my own thing from now on
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That's the spirit!
One of the worst things we can do Is compare ourselves to others. It's just mentally and emotionally taxing and no one needs that worry.
Do what's best for you and your future.
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I’m 25 and live with my boyfriend. Sometimes I look back to years ago, and I just keep asking myself why I put my self in this relationship?
I’ve always been a romantic person, dreaming about my next love experience and things like that.
Still, being honest with you, the years of my life that I most enjoyed were those that I was single.
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no it isn't considered weird
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Wow really that’s crazy the age difference between us, did you ever doubt yourself for not being in a relationship throughout the years to now or does it just not bother you?
I guess that until I reached about 27-28 or so, I always thought it'd happen. Nowadays I'm more pessimistic. By the way, I'm not even a bad looking or shy person. I'm a competitive powerlifter who's also performed at standup comedy nights.

I've also "put myself out there", so to speak: studied in three different countries for bachelor's, master's and doctorate, among other experiences.
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