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Is it good to be friends with your ex boyfriend after the break up eventhough you have had history with them?
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Personally I don’t think there’s anything wrong proving both parties respect each other
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Personally I don’t think there’s anything wrong proving both parties respect each other
I know we might say things that about eachother that we don't really mean but i am trying to respect my ex boyfriend and it is upto him if he wants to be friends.
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Do you mean that you and your boyfriend have spilt up, you’ve both possibly said negative things about each other, but you want to remain friend, but he’s not made his mind up?
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Do you mean that you and your boyfriend have spilt up, you’ve both possibly said negative things about each other, but you want to remain friend, but he’s not made his mind up?
Yes we broke up last year and i only said one little negative thing that i don't really mean and i don't know if he says anything bad about me also i am happy to be friends with him and i don't know if he would want to though however i used to be there for him alot during his break up.
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Is it good to be friends with your ex boyfriend after the break up eventhough you have had history with them?
No. Ex-relationships should stay where they belong, in the past. You need to cut all contact and move on with your life. You seem to have a very unhealthy obsession with this guy... he must have really hurt you!
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Yes we broke up last year and i only said one little negative thing that i don't really mean and i don't know if he says anything bad about me also i am happy to be friends with him and i don't know if he would want to though however i used to be there for him alot during his break up.
Aww didn’t really understand what you put so just wanted to clarify. I’m guess you were friends previously, is that when you two broke up or somebody else? You could just message him that’s probably your best bet and at least then he can give you a straight answer
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I think it’s fine to be friends or on good terms with an ex unless the break up ended badly because of abuse, cheating etc but if they simply just lost their attraction for you then it’s ok.
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No. Ex-relationships should stay where they belong, in the past. You need to cut all contact and move on with your life. You seem to have a very unhealthy obsession with this guy... he must have really hurt you!
I have cut off contact with him and i am moving on but sometimes i miss the connection with him.
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I have cut off contact with him and i am moving on but sometimes i miss the connection with him.
That's normal. Once you form a connection with someone else, you'll forget all about him and it'll be easier for you to move on.
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That's normal. Once you form a connection with someone else, you'll forget all about him and it'll be easier for you to move on.
I agree
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Aww didn’t really understand what you put so just wanted to clarify. I’m guess you were friends previously, is that when you two broke up or somebody else? You could just message him that’s probably your best bet and at least then he can give you a straight answer
Yes we were really good friends and i think he has lost contact with me and i haven't spoken to him for 6 or 7 months, i can't ask him because i think he is somebody who is over protective and might not get an answer from him either.
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Is it good to be friends with your ex boyfriend after the break up eventhough you have had history with them?
i was the same when my ex and i broke up! i thought i missed him but it turns out that i just missed having a connection with someone. when i met my current boyfriend, i forgot all about my ex and i don't think it's a bad thing at all to be friends if u both respect each other!!
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i was the same when my ex and i broke up! i thought i missed him but it turns out that i just missed having a connection with someone. when i met my current boyfriend, i forgot all about my ex and i don't think it's a bad thing at all to be friends if u both respect each other!!
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