As a guy, especially one with autism, I tend to have difficulty understanding girls.

This can be answered anonymously or not, but what are your greatest insecurities and how would you ask that guys like myself be more accommodating to them? I want to be able to help the girls I know around me and know that their insecurities don’t define them that’s all

as a girl with autism, being very clear about what you mean is very important and listening, properly. lots of guys are awful at listening and its really frustrating.

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jackmarshal757

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Original post by beanxyz

as a girl with autism, being very clear about what you mean is very important and listening, properly. lots of guys are awful at listening and its really frustrating.

Hi, it’s me! Essentially it’s the same for me. Having autism myself I can definitely empathise with that and understand that.

I accidentally posted the first one as anon

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username5640772

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Original post by KewlKitten04

My smile, laugh and nose.

what about them

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YungLordRaf

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Original post by jackmarshal757

And awomen

Original post by jackmarshal757

Was it really that obvious? 😅

Don’t mind me, just trying to know how I can live a more Godly life, uplifting women.

this guy

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jackmarshal757

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Original post by MMtrapzz

what about them

She feels insecure about them

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username5640772

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Original post by jackmarshal757

She feels insecure about them

oh

weight and looks.

Original post by Anonymous

As a guy, especially one with autism, I tend to have difficulty understanding girls.

This can be answered anonymously or not, but what are your greatest insecurities and how would you ask that guys like myself be more accommodating to them? I want to be able to help the girls I know around me and know that their insecurities don’t define them that’s all

Probably a lot of things, like if i look pretty enough for them and my body shape. I know loads of people love the way i look i think its just that its something i count on and sometime any girl can get picked on when there not pretty or intellagent. i find that sad but thats a really nice post, not many boys where im from talk or feel that way. what matters to them if if you look good and are loyal. But id definatly say my body and the thought of never being loved. but thats just me :frown:

sorry for the long post :smile:

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jackmarshal757

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Original post by YungLordRaf

this guy

What about me?

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jackmarshal757

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Original post by Anonymous

Probably a lot of things, like if i look pretty enough for them and my body shape. I know loads of people love the way i look i think its just that its something i count on and sometime any girl can get picked on when there not pretty or intellagent. i find that sad but thats a really nice post, not many boys where im from talk or feel that way. what matters to them if if you look good and are loyal. But id definatly say my body and the thought of never being loved. but thats just me :frown:

sorry for the long post :smile:

It’s okay for the long post, if you keep thinking to yourself ‘am I pretty enough for them’ you’ll never think you’re good enough and will always be trying to change yourself in order to please others. First and foremost you gotta be okay with yourself and your own body and know that it’s enough. I’m not a girl but I imagine that not letting that get to you can be quite hard.