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Sent nudes recently but the guy shared them to his mates

I'm upset and embarrassed I was flirting with a guy from online and I stupidly sent him nudes to tease him but he's shared them with his mates and I keep getting several random numbers asking me to send more nudes, I'm worried my friends and parents are gonna find out and think I'm a slut, why would he do this when he said he liked me?

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Did the photos include your face?

A lot of guys are in the habit of collecting nudes from random girls online and then sharing them with friends or uploading the nudes to free porn sites.
Revenge porn is illegal and all nude images of someone under 18 are classified as child porn.
Reply 2
As post above says, if you were under 18 he could be charged with distribution + possession of child pornography. Go to a teacher or go to the police, or both!
Original post by londonmyst
Did the photos include your face?

A lot of guys are in the habit of collecting nudes from random girls online and then sharing them with friends or uploading the nudes to free porn sites.
Revenge porn is illegal and all nude images of someone under 18 are classified as child porn.

This and pls don't send nudes in the future. You're not a slut either just because you sent one a guy once. Relax.
What he did is a crime, especially if you’re a minor. Screenshot every message of people asking you to send more nudes as proof that he sent nudes. People are always quick to judge the victim in these situations when the person who distributed it is in the wrong. They always teach girls to not send nudes and never teach them what to do after. If you know him, his number, or whatever, take it to the police. He violated you, your trust and your privacy and this is not excusable.
Original post by Anonymous
you're an idiot :colonhash:


Shut up.
Just know you’re not a “slut”, and don’t let anyone demean you because of this, it’s not your fault.
Reply 7
Original post by londonmyst
Did the photos include your face?

A lot of guys are in the habit of collecting nudes from random girls online and then sharing them with friends or uploading the nudes to free porn sites.
Revenge porn is illegal and all nude images of someone under 18 are classified as child porn.


Yeah my face was included
Original post by Anonymous
Yeah my face was included


Are you under 18?
Reply 9
Original post by DiamondDia
Are you under 18?

Yes
do you personally know him in real life? how old is this lad? please be careful when sending nudes to other people. if you do, do NOT include your pretty face in it. people can use this against you. x
Original post by Anonymous
Nahhh bro her face was even included lmao what a dumbass

you're too dumb to realise you're not helping
Original post by Anonymous
Nahhh bro her face was even included lmao what a dumbass


The person who distributed it was a dumbass, stop victim blaming.
Original post by Anonymous
Yes


Go to the police, he’s distributed child pornography.
Reply 14
The guy is the idiot. Trust is mutually exclusive. Please next time don't send them to someone you don't know irl. Especially if you're underage. You never know how fast it can circulate. And tell someone you trust won't judge you.

Then go to the police. If you go alone they will surely involve your parents and if you don't want them to know then..
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Original post by ruski cyka
do you personally know him in real life? how old is this lad? please be careful when sending nudes to other people. if you do, do NOT include your pretty face in it. people can use this against you. x

I don't know him personally he's 16
Original post by Anonymous
Yes


Then i m pretty sure you can report the guy to the police.
Original post by Anonymous
I'm upset and embarrassed I was flirting with a guy from online and I stupidly sent him nudes to tease him but he's shared them with his mates and I keep getting several random numbers asking me to send more nudes, I'm worried my friends and parents are gonna find out and think I'm a slut, why would he do this when he said he liked me?


You're not a slut, for teasing I think everyone's at least been in a position where they've teased someone and sent some sort of provocative image, it's just the thing now-a-days. I know I've been subjected to that. It's his fault for sending something so private around if anything, just goes to show don't send nudes to someone you've barely known for long, or someone you found online, god only knows what kind of vermin you can attract from online/social media, you'd be surprised.

I think the best thing to do, is confront the guy, but before you do that best to report him to the police don't tell him that though. It's pornography distribution and if you are under the age of 18 it is classed as child pornography as others on this thread have already touched upon. You're not the only girl whose been through this, and it must be so scary, just know you're not at fault these things happen it's so easy to blindly just send something and not second question it, with that being said I hope you'd be a little more careful in the future!
Original post by Anonymous
I don't know him personally he's 16

then you can turn him in and the police can find out who he really is. pile all evidence against him that he sent your nudes + his username online and selfies of him if you have them. please don't do this again, you don't know how old he really is or who he really is.
Original post by Anonymous
I don't know him personally he's 16

You need to compile screenshots of everything then, ss your chats, ss those numbers that could be his friends, let the police track their locations and undergo their extensive background check on those guys, to make sure they're not like 36 year olds

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