I think I might becoming an incel idk what to do?

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Makalitu
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The failing with women and dating apps are really starting to get to me nothing works I quit ages ago now I put myself back in the dating game I just have the same negative experiences!
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whats the first thing you say to a girl
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whats the first thing you say to a girl
I use to get matches but I don’t anymore nothing works they just flake or waste time sucks I’ll be single and alone forever
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(Original post by Makalitu)
I use to get matches but I don’t anymore nothing works they just flake or waste time sucks I’ll be single and alone forever
this gives me the male pick me attitude :// girls get rejected too the same way you have, i got rejected for so long. literally just be patient, no one owes you a romantic relationship and they take time to build
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this gives me the male pick me attitude :// girls get rejected too the same way you have, i got rejected for so long. literally just be patient, no one owes you a romantic relationship and they take time to build
I don’t care what women owe or don’t owe man I made a thread pretending to be a woman complaining about men so don’t give me that rubbish
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(Original post by Makalitu)
I don’t care what women owe or don’t owe man I made a thread pretending to be a woman complaining about men so don’t give me that rubbish
pardon?
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do u go to school, uni, college or anything? or do u like work a job? from my experience those are the best places to build your confidence by practising flirting / talking to girls (i know that sounds kinda bad but its true). would you say youre not confident? are you not confident of the way you look or is it a more mental thing?
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this gives me the male pick me attitude :// girls get rejected too the same way you have, i got rejected for so long. literally just be patient, no one owes you a romantic relationship and they take time to build
its easier for a man to be rejected than a girl to be rejected
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its easier for a man to be rejected than a girl to be rejected
can you elaborate? it wasn’t about ease of rejection - more so that everyone gets rejected all the time, and moaning about it doesn’t fix ur problems and makes you less attractive
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do u go to school, uni, college or anything? or do u like work a job? from my experience those are the best places to build your confidence by practising flirting / talking to girls (i know that sounds kinda bad but its true). would you say youre not confident? are you not confident of the way you look or is it a more mental thing?
Nooo I don’t
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can you elaborate? it wasn’t about ease of rejection - more so that everyone gets rejected all the time, and moaning about it doesn’t fix ur problems and makes you less attractive
Neither does anything else I’ve tried man
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(Original post by Makalitu)
Nooo I don’t
Sounds like you need to get out more...after this pandemic calms down
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Neither does anything else I’ve tried man
dude, just take ur time and lower ur expectations. relationships happen when u least expect it from my experience
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dude, just take ur time and lower ur expectations. relationships happen when u least expect it from my experience
They don’t I’ve been single all my life and I’m 23 think about that not one girlfriend lmao lmao
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Most people on dating apps in my experience are unbelievably boring and have no redeeming qualities in their personality beyond small talk. I hate small talk.
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They don’t I’ve been single all my life and I’m 23 think about that not one girlfriend lmao lmao
it doesnt matter about your age and how many gfs youve had. thats irrelevant. its most likely your attitude or the way you come across because you seem to be turning down all our suggestions and saying nothing ever works. if youre not willing to try then why did you make a thread?
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Most people on dating apps in my experience are unbelievably boring and have no redeeming qualities in their personality beyond small talk. I hate small talk.
(Original post by BluMoon06)
it doesnt matter about your age and how many gfs youve had. thats irrelevant. its most likely your attitude or the way you come across because you seem to be turning down all our suggestions and saying nothing ever works. if youre not willing to try then why did you make a thread?
No attitude don’t cause good or bad things to happen attitude depends of your life experiences
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(Original post by Makalitu)
They don’t I’ve been single all my life and I’m 23 think about that not one girlfriend lmao lmao
there’s no rush to be in a relationship, it’s fine to be 23 and never have been in a relationship
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there’s no rush to be in a relationship, it’s fine to be 23 and never have been in a relationship
I’m 23 and a loner
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(Original post by Makalitu)
No attitude don’t cause good or bad things to happen attitude depends of your life experiences
attitudes do matter - it’s like if you go for a job. you won’t get hired if you have a bad attitude yk?
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