What’s wrong with being a “slut”

No one cares that you are a slut apart from yourself

Well yeah, do what you like. Don't expect a body count of 25 to be desirable though. I sure wouldn't want anyone like that who shows no emotional dedication to people. I find that horrible.

So basically, I’m a “slut” or “****”
But I don’t understand what the whole stigma is about .
A woman has needs ?
I’m young , single , I have my own home, so it’s not like I’m doing it at my parents ? I’m on a contraceptive , I use condoms also to prevent std’s ect . It’s consensual, no one gets led on , and I never put myself in dangerous or stupid situations.
Yet I get so much back lash for having slept with many men ?
I’m not ready to be in a relationship yet , but as stated previously a woman has needs .
Someone’s body count is personal , and it’s not like I go plastering it all over the place ? I keep it very hidden if everything. I don’t dress revealing or anything . I simply just enjoy sex . A lot .
Who cares if I’ve slept with loads of people ?
Everyone has to have a hobby ?
Outside of this I have my own business ect , I’m not someone who stays at home all day , with benefits and having 20 different guys around a day .
I’m a hard worker . So if I want to go out with the girls on the weekend and see a guy I like , why I can’t I go back with him ? If everyone is consenting and no one is being led on I don’t see the problem ? And so what if I do it again the next week and the week after that . Again I stress I’m very careful and hygienic .
So what’s everyone’s opinions on being a “****” . What is actually the problem ?

Guy here

As someone who has yet to pop their cherry, I don't think anyone is a sl*t. The only reason why girls get labeled as sl*ts is that guys (or other girls) want to make a girl feel bad for being sexually active. Maybe it's because they're jealous, maybe it's because they have emotional baggage they haven't dealt with, or maybe it's because they don't have anything better to do with their lives. But most of all, it's because they are insecure. And calling other people harsh names just because of their choices in life makes them feel better

So don't let anyone make you feel bad for your choices in life! As long as you're not hurting anyone, other people have no right to degrade your self-worth with their words. Keep being yourself! And make sure to surround yourself with people who value you for who you are!

Sex isn't as special if you have it so often with many different people. It's just an activity for pleasure, when many men would feel that it's meant to be far more intimate. Your attitude to sex likely puts men off. You don't treat it as something truly worth having with only one person.

You do you, but don't expect many men to put their dingaling in your fairy cave once you decide you want to "settle down" with someone.

So basically, I’m a “slut” or “****”
But I don’t understand what the whole stigma is about .
A woman has needs ?
I’m young , single , I have my own home, so it’s not like I’m doing it at my parents ? I’m on a contraceptive , I use condoms also to prevent std’s ect . It’s consensual, no one gets led on , and I never put myself in dangerous or stupid situations.
Yet I get so much back lash for having slept with many men ?
I’m not ready to be in a relationship yet , but as stated previously a woman has needs .
Someone’s body count is personal , and it’s not like I go plastering it all over the place ? I keep it very hidden if everything. I don’t dress revealing or anything . I simply just enjoy sex . A lot .
Who cares if I’ve slept with loads of people ?
Everyone has to have a hobby ?
Outside of this I have my own business ect , I’m not someone who stays at home all day , with benefits and having 20 different guys around a day .
I’m a hard worker . So if I want to go out with the girls on the weekend and see a guy I like , why I can’t I go back with him ? If everyone is consenting and no one is being led on I don’t see the problem ? And so what if I do it again the next week and the week after that . Again I stress I’m very careful and hygienic .
So what’s everyone’s opinions on being a “****” . What is actually the problem ?