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you know that regret feeling when you lose a friend... :(

i ditched my friend (H) because my bsf at the time (J) was manipulative and made me think that H was a bad, toxic person. J would talk abt her and say bad stuff that she'd done and how much of an 'impact' it had on her.

i feel so sad that i have left her now, i asked her how she was the other day and she replies so dry :/
i was her friend for 3 years, and i never got a chance to ever hang out with her outside of school because:
1 - strict parents (i was younger at the time and they didn't want me to go out for personal reasons)
2- covid
Well at least it's a lesson you can learn from. J was manipulative and bad but the blame can't 100% go to them. You chose to believe them over your friend and didn't stop them talking bad about your friend.

Maybe you could try be honest with her and ask her if you guys can talk about what happened between you guys. If she's indifferent about it then you should probably just leave it and take it as something to learn from and grow as a person.

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