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Reply 20
sublime_envy
hmm I'm a 2 I think :biggrin:



Me too, I think. I've had a few experiences with girls. I'm of the opinion that if you find someone attractive it doesn't really matter if they're male or female.
Reply 21
big fat 0 for me.

i detest anything else.
puppy
Me too, I think. I've had a few experiences with girls. I'm of the opinion that if you find someone attractive it doesn't really matter if they're male or female.
yep same here. I have bedded a few of my girls mates though nothing for awhile :wink:
Gimp
Erections just happen when you're young, doesn't always mean you're aroused, more often, not, actually.

I think men have fewer homosexual tendencies simply due to how sex works. Penetration is the norm for women (not saying that all women indulge in this), however for men penetration isn't the norm and so are less likely to fantasise about another man. Just my opinion of course.


How is penetration the norm for women and not for men? :confused:
Reply 24
SamTheMan
How is penetration the norm for women and not for men? :confused:


To be on the receiving end of, I mean. Sorry I was a bit vague.
Reply 25
SamTheMan
How is penetration the norm for women and not for men? :confused:

i guess in normal sexual acitivties men do the penertrating
Reply 26
SamTheMan
How is penetration the norm for women and not for men? :confused:

men dont normally get penetrated...
Reply 27
lessthantree
I don't however, see how it could explain that men think less about other men for this reason, since they could fantasise about the act of penetrating another man..yeah?


Bum holes (for want of a better word) are pretty taboo! Many heterosexual men would consider rear entry on a female disgusting let along contemplating performing the act on another man. There's also the greater risk of disease, the smell, and the tightness (but hey some people like that, tighter I mean, not disease or smells).
Gimp
Erections just happen when you're young, doesn't always mean you're aroused, more often, not, actually.

I think men have fewer homosexual tendencies simply due to how sex works. Penetration is the norm for women (not saying that all women indulge in this), however for men penetration isn't the norm and so are less likely to fantasise about another man. Just my opinion of course.


I understand what you mean now but you say that men won't fantasize about other men because they're not used to being penetrating in heterosexual relationships. But in lesbian sex, there is very little penetration, if not none.
Reply 29
Gimp
Bum holes (for want of a better word) are pretty taboo! Many heterosexual men would consider rear entry on a female disgusting let along contemplating performing the act on another man. There's also the greater risk of disease, the smell, and the tightness (but hey some people like that, tighter I mean, not disease or smells).


indeed. its somewhere i wouldnt go.
Reply 30
SamTheMan
But in lesbian sex, there is very little penetration, if not none.


Strap on! :biggrin:
Reply 31
puppy
Just wondered what people's takes were on the whole bisexual argument. Alfred Kinsey proposed that most people were bisexual to a degree, fitting on a scale of 0 to 6 (0= straight, 6= homosexual, 3= bisexual), whereas some people seem to think that bisexual people are "kidding themselves". I'd like posts from people concerning what they think of this scale, where they'd fit themselves on it and any extra qualifiers i.e. whether they'd need to lose their inhibitions to try a same-sex activity or if they used to view themselves as a different number on the scale. Ill post some more questions when I think of them to keep the thread moving.



in my mind i flit form 0- 3 occasionally, but physically ive only ever stayed as a 0
Ellie4
Strap on! :biggrin:


That's the image portrayed by lesbian movies designed for heterosexual males.
Reply 33
Gimp
Bum holes (for want of a better word) are pretty taboo! Many heterosexual men would consider rear entry on a female disgusting let along contemplating performing the act on another man. There's also the greater risk of disease, the smell, and the tightness (but hey some people like that, tighter I mean, not disease or smells).

Not to the readership of FHM, obviously! Last poll said that about 80% fantasised about it (I think..)
Reply 34
SamTheMan
That's the image portrayed by lesbian movies designed for heterosexual males.


Really? It's what I do with my girlfriend...
Reply 35
blissy
Not to the readership of FHM, obviously! Last poll said that about 80% fantasised about it (I think..)


i have to agree with you blissy!! My flatmates are constantly going on about it when the only girl isnt around!
Reply 36
blissy
Not to the readership of FHM, obviously! Last poll said that about 80% fantasised about it (I think..)

would be questionable to suggest the majority of the readership of FHM are fully straight.
Reply 37
SamTheMan
That's the image portrayed by lesbian movies designed for heterosexual males.


Women use stap-ons etc in relationships, they are not purely sold for porn movies!!!
technik
would be questionable to suggest the majority of the readership of FHM are fully straight.


Good point lol. Actually rear entry is appealing to guys because it's naughty but it's also because of anal fixation during youth which, with some men develops into homosexuality and others is repressed in a different way.
SciFi25
Women use stap-ons etc in relationships, they are not purely sold for porn movies!!!


yes but it's not as portrayed in porn films. Of course some lesbians use them but they're not as much the norm as they are in films.
They're used in films because it's visually impressive. Just as in porn, sex is made into something more visually stimulating than it usually is.