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Reply 40
RE. Strap Ons

I was led to believe that full on lesbians don't like the idea of penetration and prefer all that footsucking and caressing business. Their most erogenous zone is on the outside, after all.

blissy
Not to the readership of FHM, obviously! Last poll said that about 80% fantasised about it (I think..)


As mentioned, probably mostly hetero males, most of which were probably whacking one out even while they filled in the poll :tongue: no offence to lad's mag readers, but don't try to fool me with that "i buy it for the articles" crap. :wink:
Reply 41
SamTheMan
Good point lol. Actually rear entry is appealing to guys because it's naughty but it's also because of anal fixation during youth which, with some men develops into homosexuality and others is repressed in a different way.


i would probably disagree with everything you've said
technik
i would probably disagree with everything you've said


why's that? You don't think that anal fixation during youth can lead to being interested in rear entry later on in life?
Reply 43
SamTheMan
why's that? You don't think that anal fixation during youth can lead to being interested in rear entry later on in life?


i dont think many people have a fixation with anus's...
Reply 44
technik
i dont think many people have a fixation with anus's...

Well Freud will bed to differ

*change that bed to beg. No, that was not a Freudian slip...
Reply 45
I'd probably say i'm a 1/2.
technik
i dont think many people have a fixation with anus's...

Lol.

Guys go through an anal fixation phase when they're 3 or 4. This is according to Freud's psychosexual theory but not being too knowledgeable in psychology, I think I'm interpreting this phase a bit liberally.
lol @ topic, *sighs* brings back special memories.
Reply 48
BlueAngel
lol @ topic, *sighs* brings back special memories.

Shane is not a girl is (s)he?!:eek:
lessthanthree
I think you mean "expressed"

I also think you'll find that freudian terminology has really gone through the mill enough to be thought of as pretty much defunct, now.


Not all elements are totally abandoned. I haven't read that many books about psychology but one that I had to read for a humanities project and that was written two years ago, used toilet training and anal fixation to explain a lot of things, most not at all sexual though. This is where the expression being "anal" comes from. So it's not all sexual.
Reply 50
I don't see how a fixation on anuses should have any effect on whether you find females or males attractive when everyone has one.
BlueAngel
lol @ topic, *sighs* brings back special memories.

lol! :smile:
Gimp
I don't see how a fixation on anuses should have any effect on whether you find females or males attractive when everyone has one.

Exactly, I was talking about guys being obsessed with that, no matter what the sex of the person they want to do it with.
Reply 53
SamTheMan
Exactly, I was talking about guys being obsessed with that, no matter what the sex of the person they want to do it with.


My bad then! When you said this:
SamTheMan
Actually rear entry is appealing to guys because it's naughty but it's also because of anal fixation during youth which, with some men develops into homosexuality and others is repressed in a different way.

I thought you were suggesting it did.
visesh
Shane is not a girl is (s)he?!:eek:

:eek: :eek: what are you on!
Reply 55
Ahem... well this seems to be the most interesting thread lol
Reply 56
Im not gay but I have loadsa gay friends.. Note: Im a fag hag..

I love going to gay bars too coz I always feel so much more relaxed and its just generally loadsa fun
Reply 57
Annik
Im not gay but I have loadsa gay friends.. Note: Im a fag hag..

I love going to gay bars too coz I always feel so much more relaxed and its just generally loadsa fun


and that has what to do with the general conversation?? lol!
Reply 58
lessthanthree
he generally related fixation in anal stage to personality type in adult life; ie, children who derived pleasure from keeping their faeces in [most likely because they enjoyed control over their parents] are more likely to be quite finnicky adults,.


hence the term anally retentive :wink:
Reply 59
SciFi25
and that has what to do with the general conversation?? lol!


lol..I dunno..

I didnt actually read the last msgs but I thought it was an interesting point.. I just wanted to butt into the conversation..

*goes and sits in the corner*

Hmm..sorry, I will look at the last messages and try to think of something interesting and RELEVANT to say :frown: