Ex boyfriend problem

I'm not sure what the problem is here. Is it that he's following other girls social media accounts after becoming single? If so this is normal and he hasn't done anything wrong.

Are you really that insecure that you don’t let your boyfriend like other girls pics lol get a grip

Are you really that insecure that you don’t let your boyfriend like other girls pics lol get a grip

not that i don’t really care about it it’s the fact he made a new account to do all these things, and maybe the fact he was never like this and how he can change so much only after a few days?

If you ****ing opened your eyes you would see that he made a new account to do all these things?

*ex-boyfriend...

The fact that Instagram is dictating your understanding of right/wrong should be an alarm bell for you, in my opinion.

Making a new account would've been out of respect for you. He didn't want you to know and be hurt by it.

He followed girls social media accounts before you dated so it shouldn't be any surprise that he would do this when he became single again. If anything it's consistent rather than a sign of change.

My ex boyfriend was perfect at the start which was over a year ago, unfollowed every girl on social media without me asking. In the past couple months he was starting to become distant which i understand it happens, however it got to a point where we was arguing over petty things, i always knew it was a lack of communication he wasn’t willing to fix it so he broke up with me, two days after he logs out of his old instagram which he (names inactive but still watches my story’s?) he was only following me and his family and mates etc.. and makes a new one. Obviously following girls and liking girls pictures, without me being able to see. I would just like to know how it is possible to have so much respect for someone and give them all you have, with some flaws but completely fixable in time, and treat me this way so soon. It’s heart breaking tbh and i really don’t deserve it any suggestions on what to do? Will he finally realise? after all i was his first love.

This is a life lesson. Take some time to heal, but most importantly learn from it. The ex is teaching you exactly what you don't want in a man in the future.

Edit: And DO NOT contact him in any way whatsoever. If he wants to talk to you, you can give him the time of day if you want (though I advise against it), but definitely no going back. Never go back in life!

his ur ex now so he can follow girls if he wants to

*ex-boyfriend...

The fact that Instagram is dictating your understanding of right/wrong should be an alarm bell for you, in my opinion.

He is your ex-boyfriend, he can do as he likes. You should seek help.

This is a life lesson. Take some time to heal, but most importantly learn from it. The ex is teaching you exactly what you don't want in a man in the future.

Edit: And DO NOT contact him in any way whatsoever. If he wants to talk to you, you can give him the time of day if you want (though I advise against it), but definitely no going back. Never go back in life!

also - do you think deleting insta would be a start of change i know people have and it has changed their view on most things, crazy how an app can control how your emotions are, but since i’m single and don’t have that many things to do it is something to do. However it does give me the urge to lurk which in the end of the day only hurts more, what are your thoughts?

If you ****ing opened your eyes you would see that he made a new account to do all these things?