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A guy threatened to send my two - years-ago nudes to my family, what should I do?

I only know his snapchat account, and nothing else. I didn't know where he came from .

I have deleted all of them, but apparently this guy saved them. I have long regretted of the action and repented.

Talk to your parents about it. If your afraid to do that then there is no other way to try to report him or to get him to delete them.

I think the only valid option is getting in touch with police. If he is threatening to share your private pictures against your will - you definitely have a case. Unfortunately though, I suspect they will struggle to do anything. I think you should tell your parents anyway, so if the worst happens they understand and aren't shocked. I'm sure they'll understand, everyone makes mistakes and if you've repented and regretted - what more can you do?

Jonathanãƒ„

Don't negotiate with him

Tell your parents immediately

Original post by Anonymous

I only know his snapchat account, and nothing else. I didn't know where he came from .

I have deleted all of them, but apparently this guy saved them. I have long regretted of the action and repented.

what did u send

Capitalist_Lamb

Original post by Anonymous

I only know his snapchat account, and nothing else. I didn't know where he came from .

I have deleted all of them, but apparently this guy saved them. I have long regretted of the action and repented.

Maybe file a harassment case. I'm not sure.

Original post by Anonymous

I only know his snapchat account, and nothing else. I didn't know where he came from .

I have deleted all of them, but apparently this guy saved them. I have long regretted of the action and repented.

if u were a minor at the time u can definitely tell the police cos its child porn so him just having it is illegal.

What’s he asking for in exchange for not sending them?

If he only has your Snapchat, he probably doesn’t actually know who your family is and is using it only as a threat.

I agree with the others - tell your parents. Sending nudes is perfectly normal, hell, your parents have probably done it when they were younger lmao. Just make them aware of the situation and im sure they'd understand if you have a good relationship with them. Tell them to block him on their socials & block his number etc too.

username4986690

Call the police and they will take appropriate action.

OP

Original post by Anonymous

What’s he asking for in exchange for not sending them?

If he only has your Snapchat, he probably doesn’t actually know who your family is and is using it only as a threat.

He contacted me via snapchat, he has my instagram and he has my facebook accounts too. I then deleted my ig account and he told me that I just deleted my ig account. He told me that he's going to create a new ig account of pic of me naked with my real name and he was like, " the public gonna see this".

In return, he asked for my nudes and I refused.

Original post by Anonymous

He contacted me via snapchat, he has my instagram and he has my facebook accounts too. I then deleted my ig account and he told me that I just deleted my ig account. He told me that he's going to create a new ig account of pic of me naked with my real name and he was like, " the public gonna see this".

In return, he asked for my nudes and I refused.

Are you able to tell your parents (and then the police) about this?

You said you "repented", so depending upon your background I'm guessing that might not be possible? If it is you should definitely look into legal action.

report this ****** to the police right away. keep a record of his threats.

he had no authority to save them, unless you gave him permission, which I am guessing you did not. Just report him to the police, but I doubt they will do much.

OP

Original post by Anonymous

Are you able to tell your parents (and then the police) about this?

You said you "repented", so depending upon your background I'm guessing that might not be possible? If it is you should definitely look into legal action.

Update : I've confessed to my mom about it and she wasn't mad, she is glad that I've stopped sending nudes online. She told me to deactivate all of my social media accounts and not to leave any trace on the internet. As for the nude pics, she told me that from now on, it's not my fault that it has spread. I am very glad and grateful to have an understanding mom.
However, in my country (I'm not gonna mention which), the police are known to be corrupted. My family and I had filed a missing case of my aunt. 10 + years and still waiting for ONE SINGLE word from any police. They could have just said that the case is closed/ no trace and all, but NO, there hasn't been any word. Just to tell you how police is pretty unreliable here.

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