Why do women make dating so hard to get started?

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Why do women make dating so hard to get started? There are so many decent men out there looking to meet, date and have fun with women, yet women seem to want to evade them and only see someone they have met in particular situations, like through friends. Men are much more receptive to meeting and dating, and women in the main make it hard for them by not being interested most of the time.
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Why do women make dating so hard to get started? There are so many decent men out there looking to meet, date and have fun with women, yet women seem to want to evade them and only see someone they have met in particular situations, like through friends. Men are much more receptive to meeting and dating, and women in the main make it hard for them by not being interested most of the time.
Supply and demand. They don't need to make it easy, unless they are interested.

Stop acting / speaking like an incel, improve yourself and you'll be successful.
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In my experience (I have no experience) women just like to see us suffer.. Idk what it is but I guess instead of playing video games and stuff like we do they get all their enjoyment from screwing with us...

Doesn't apply to all women like you said, just most of them
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It's their job. Women are born to be picky.
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Stop acting / speaking like an incel, improve yourself and you'll be successful.
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Firstly the title is wrong. Please don't generalise.
There's a reason they're not interested. It's all about the approach and what kind of women you're interested in. Look in the right places.

Are you even dateable? What do you bring to the table?
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Because usually people like others who they are comfortable with first; given a lot of occurrences it's hard to differentiate between 'decent' men and not so decent ones..
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This post reeks of entitlement. Women don't owe men anything. 97% of women have been sexually harassed, why not start there.
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It's their job. Women are born to be picky.
Give me one good reason why I shouldn't report you for saying that
It's almost midnight and you want to be making comments like this...
Smh

Ppl like you are the problem with TSR
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Why do women make dating so hard to get started? There are so many decent men out there looking to meet, date and have fun with women, yet women seem to want to evade them and only see someone they have met in particular situations, like through friends. Men are much more receptive to meeting and dating, and women in the main make it hard for them by not being interested most of the time.
This is actually so true, to be honest. Feel sorry for men in that respect haha 😭

But that's definitely not all women.
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Why do women make dating so hard to get started? There are so many decent men out there looking to meet, date and have fun with women, yet women seem to want to evade them and only see someone they have met in particular situations, like through friends. Men are much more receptive to meeting and dating, and women in the main make it hard for them by not being interested most of the time.
whoah, we have a Mr Nice Guy on TSR tonight🤣
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This post reeks of entitlement. Women don't owe men anything. 97% of women have been sexually harassed, why not start there.
Let's not make this about harassment please some please just give him dating advice tbh

Is this even in the dating or debate section?
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Supply and demand. They don't need to make it easy, unless they are interested.

Stop acting / speaking like an incel, improve yourself and you'll be successful.
What's an incel?
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Why do women make dating so hard to get started? There are so many decent men out there looking to meet, date and have fun with women, yet women seem to want to evade them and only see someone they have met in particular situations, like through friends. Men are much more receptive to meeting and dating, and women in the main make it hard for them by not being interested most of the time.
(Original post by Jonathanツ)
In my experience (I have no experience) women just like to see us suffer.. Idk what it is but I guess instead of playing video games and stuff like we do they get all their enjoyment from screwing with us...

Doesn't apply to all women like you said, just most of them
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It's their job. Women are born to be picky.
You guys need to improve your attitudes. You're not entitled to date or have fun with anyone. Women aren't doing you any sort of a disservice by choosing not to date you; they're not making your life hard.

This kind of thinking produces a vicious cycle - entitlement is woman-repelling, and that leads to romantic failures that entrench the attitude that women are turning you down maliciously. Please, please carry out some introspection.
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whoah, we have a Mr Nice Guy on TSR tonight🤣
Huh
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Supply and demand. They don't need to make it easy, unless they are interested.

Stop acting / speaking like an incel, improve yourself and you'll be successful.
You’re too sweet I just want to squish your cheeks and I don’t even know how you look
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Let's not make this about harassment please some please just give him dating advice tbh

Is this even in the dating or debate section?
Harassment does come into play actually. I am talking from experience as well. Women do consider this eventuality when dating because unfortunately, it is a reality for a lot of women.
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What's an incel?
A person who is INvoluntarily CELibate. Generally carries with it implications of misogyny, that the person thinks they're entitled to date or have sex with women, and that they are angry at women that they're not getting what they're entitled to.
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Why do women make dating so hard to get started? There are so many decent men out there looking to meet, date and have fun with women, yet women seem to want to evade them and only see someone they have met in particular situations, like through friends. Men are much more receptive to meeting and dating, and women in the main make it hard for them by not being interested most of the time.
Cry about it.
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Huh
referencing self proclaimed “nice” guys who blame the lack of interest people display to them on them not appreciating how amazing and “nice” they are and not on the cringe and entitlement

Not to be confused with all round good eggs though lol
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