Losing a close guy friend just like that?!?!

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so this guy and I were super close and he ghosted me out of nowhere? I made sure that I had done nothing to upset him. we used to occasionally flirt and he used to hint about us being a thing but I always brushed him off or jokingly flirted back. But right after my birthday party, he attended just ghosted me completely. I tried contacting him but no response. we had been really good friends over a year and it makes me so sad and confused and I keep blaming myself
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but I always brushed him off .

While you knew he was being serious?
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so this guy and I were super close and he ghosted me out of nowhere? I made sure that I had done nothing to upset him. we used to occasionally flirt and he used to hint about us being a thing but I always brushed him off or jokingly flirted back. But right after my birthday party, he attended just ghosted me completely. I tried contacting him but no response. we had been really good friends over a year and it makes me so sad and confused and I keep blaming myself
It kinda sounded like he wanted something with you and you hurt his feelings
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so this guy and I were super close and he ghosted me out of nowhere? I made sure that I had done nothing to upset him. we used to occasionally flirt and he used to hint about us being a thing but I always brushed him off or jokingly flirted back. But right after my birthday party, he attended just ghosted me completely. I tried contacting him but no response. we had been really good friends over a year and it makes me so sad and confused and I keep blaming myself
He was taking the idea of being with you seriously, but not vice versa. He seemingly was hurt by this and no longer wished to be in contact with you.
Not surprising to be honest.
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Was he really a friend?
It sounds like he was only looking for a relationship or to hookup with you.
Once he realised that you didn't want to do either and he wouldn't be able to change your mind, he moved on.
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(Original post by londonmyst)
Was he really a friend?
It sounds like he was only looking for a relationship or to hookup with you.
Once he realised that you didn't want to do either and he wouldn't be able to change your mind, he moved on.
i don't think if someone just wanted to "hook up" would befriend someone for years and years just to get in their pants :/
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i don't think if someone just wanted to "hook up" would befriend someone for years and years just to get in their pants :/
A few guys have tried with me.
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(Original post by londonmyst)
A few guys have tried with me.
sorry to hear that
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Anonymous #1
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(Original post by CaptainDuckie)
While you knew he was being serious?
um, I honestly didn't know cuz we both would laugh it out but I guess he was lowkey serious about it all this time :/
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(Original post by Wannabevetnurse)
It kinda sounded like he wanted something with you and you hurt his feelings
aw, something as in a relationship? dang i didn't mean to hurt me i just wanted to be friends like we always were
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(Original post by londonmyst)
Was he really a friend?
It sounds like he was only looking for a relationship or to hookup with you.
Once he realised that you didn't want to do either and he wouldn't be able to change your mind, he moved on.
ah yes I see it now tbh that sucks I lost a good friend just like that
i mean i cant force myself to like him you know?
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(Original post by sufys12)
He was taking the idea of being with you seriously, but not vice versa. He seemingly was hurt by this and no longer wished to be in contact with you.
Not surprising to be honest.
um well, I guess this is the most straight up accurate answer :/
it sucks that I can't do anything to get my friend back!
but why do think it's not surprising tho?
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If he doesn’t want to contact you for those reasons anymore, get the hint, learn your lesson and move on.
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He got sick of the brotherzone he was in and left.
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Maybe he's found a gf
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Maybe he's found a gf
nah he hasnt dated anyone in his whole life ..
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(Original post by CaptainDuckie)
If he doesn’t want to contact you for those reasons anymore, get the hint, learn your lesson and move on.
ouch okay learn my lesson as in? i couldnt force myself to like him that way lol
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