I don't know, I am kind of feeling similar but for different reasons.. I'm not into venues whose main attraction are cheap drinks and commercial music.. i'd like to find some people that I could do things with like go to art galleries, or explore London by doing some automatic walking, or go to a different coffee shop every week, or look in the papers for weird conspiracy clubs to join, or follow the goths of camden to see where they're going, or go to a squat party just for the sake of it... . But I either meet people who are mainly about studies or those who want a social life, but a generic one..