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Is it bad I don’t want my siblings at my graduation next year?

I feel like it’s my day and I should be happy, but my mum will not have it when I tell her. Any advice on what I should do?

Reply 1

5hyl33n

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Original post by Anonymous

I feel like it’s my day and I should be happy, but my mum will not have it when I tell her. Any advice on what I should do?

Why can’t you be happy with your siblings?

Reply 2

username5428282

Do you not get on? It’s your day and it should be your choice.

Reply 3

Anonymous #1

Original post by YaliaV123

Do you not get on? It’s your day and it should be your choice.

We really don’t. No relationship at all. I just hate how they speak to my mum...

Reply 4

Anonymous #1

Original post by 5hyl33n

Why can’t you be happy with your siblings?

Don’t particularly get on with them and I feel like it’s rooted in their jealousy (this is my opinion based on things said in the past).

Reply 5

username5428282

Original post by Anonymous

We really don’t. No relationship at all. I just hate how they speak to my mum...

I think it should be your decision because you’re an adult now. How old are they?

Reply 6

Anonymous #1

Original post by YaliaV123

I think it should be your decision because you’re an adult now. How old are they?

Haha when I say they age you’ll probs laugh.

They are 14 and 18.

It’s been really toxic living with them through COVID and I came to a realisation that sadly I don’t think I can truly love them. That combined with the fact that I love my mum so dearly, and HATE how they treat her; I just can’t let them bring the toxicity next year. I just cannot do it.

My dad hates his siblings too so it probably runs in the family.