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Was coming out a big deal or priority for you?
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How do u know if your bi or lesbian? Any signs or something...
Its something you have to figure out on your own, i'm afraid. I think it comes to a point where you just know. For me, i know i'm a lesbian, however i'm still attracted to some male celebrities, but no men in real life. I would suggest reading the lesbian masterdoc (you can find it online by googling it) it talks about comp-het, and lesbian vs bi struggle. Good luck!
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Was coming out a big deal or priority for you?
yes and no. I absolutely hated being in the closet because it meant i couldn't be truly me, and i felt like I was lying to myself and everyone around me however the thought of coming out was terrifying and therefore not a priority, but it was always there itching at the back of my head. Overall, it was the best choice i've ever made but coming out is only worthwhile if it is safe for you to do so.
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Its something you have to figure out on your own, i'm afraid. I think it comes to a point where you just know. For me, i know i'm a lesbian, however i'm still attracted to some male celebrities, but no men in real life. I would suggest reading the lesbian masterdoc (you can find it online by googling it) it talks about comp-het, and lesbian vs bi struggle. Good luck!
Ah thank you for help!! I just wanted to know as I sometimes feel fascinated when looking at girls sometimes but idk it’s probably just the looks or I’m just afraid of my looks
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Ah thank you for help!! I just wanted to know as I sometimes feel fascinated when looking at girls sometimes but idk it’s probably just the looks or I’m just afraid of my looks
Don't doubt yourself! If something feels right then pursue it. It can take a long time to find your identity. You have your whole life infront of you, don't stress yourself out over labels! everything will come naturally. <3
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Are you concerned that some women who are attracted to other women are not describing themselves as lesbians so much now, but as something else, perhaps non-binary?
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(Original post by hknzsco)
Don't doubt yourself! If something feels right then pursue it. It can take a long time to find your identity. You have your whole life infront of you, don't stress yourself out over labels! everything will come naturally. <3
Oh thank you ☺️
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Are you concerned that some women who are attracted to other women are not describing themselves as lesbians so much now, but as something else, perhaps non-binary?
I'm not concerned about that, no. Non-binary is a gender identity and lesbian is a sexual identity. The two are not linked at all, as sexuality ans gender are complete different experiences, unique to everyone. It's none of my business how someone identifies.
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what does this mean
Was a joke, it means you've a good taste in that you prefer women ...:getmecoat:
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Was a joke, it means you've a good taste in that you prefer women ...:getmecoat:
so true hehe
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have u been in relationships
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What do you do if you like a girl but you're not sure if she's gay and you're too nervous to talk to her and you barely ever see her anyway?
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Its something you have to figure out on your own, i'm afraid. I think it comes to a point where you just know. For me, i know i'm a lesbian, however i'm still attracted to some male celebrities, but no men in real life. I would suggest reading the lesbian masterdoc (you can find it online by googling it) it talks about comp-het, and lesbian vs bi struggle. Good luck!
You are attracted to human males. Ergo, you are bi.
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Were you breastfed as a baby?
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What do you do if you like a girl but you're not sure if she's gay and you're too nervous to talk to her and you barely ever see her anyway?
Try and get friendly! message her and just start chatting. Then slowly try and work it into conversation! It's hard but i promise it gets easier.
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Were you breastfed as a baby?
you have never felt the touch of a woman.
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You are attracted to human males. Ergo, you are bi.
That's not how it works...
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That's not how it works...
It kind of is. I am a male. I am not at all attracted to males. Instead, I am attracted to females. Therefore, I am classified as heterosexual. She is sexually attracted to both men and women. Therefore, she is classified as bisexual. Simples.
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we are both gae
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